What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Gold Coast
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Store Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dating men. Partially admiring girls.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
19 year old Domination
How long ago did this hookup happen? August 2016
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was 19, slim, about 34b cups, clean. She was a student waiting at the bus stand where I was too. I might have made some turns to check her out but it was just because of her uniform. It was a blouse with a short skirt.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After 15 mins or so the bus arrived and we boarded. I sat 2 rows in front while she was at the back. Usually, I’d just look out the window until my destination. Today well, I had the girls uniform imagination in my head, suddenly started touching myself to my own excitement.
At another stop, even more people entered then suddenly that school girl sat next to me. I quickly stopped what I was doing when she whispered to me, “I can help you”. I replied saying I don’t know what she was talking about. Right after that she brought my left hand to her skirt opening and whispered to me to do as I want if it would make me feel better. I rubbed against her thighs towards her panty and slid my fingers inside. She gave a slight moan. It was the first time in many years I touched another girl’s pussy. I pulled her closer towards me and I slid another hand into her blouse.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Soon after it was my stop. I asked her if she’d want to accompany me since her class was in the afternoon. She did and we left the bus and I brought her to my office where we had the most satisfying sex ever. It was my first time in a long time, especially with someone twice my age younger. She wasn’t a lesbian. She just liked being touched by girls. It was her first time having sex with another woman.
We kissed, cuddled on the sofa, licked each other and kissed even more. I put my strap-on and used it on her and found out it was her first time. I enjoyed her as much as she enjoyed me.
We ended about 3 hours later. She left and we became friends with benefits.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I resulted to Craigslist to search for more w2w ads hopefully to meet other younger women. Results were amazing. Met so many people, had a really good time. Currently dating a special woman, about 23 years old. I guess they are my type.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more confident, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? A little bit
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my best friend about it. She was a bisexual too so she was positive about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? To feel great about myself again. I’ve always enjoyed sex with another woman and just did not get to have it until i met her.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She had to leave for class after. I would have wanted her to stay longer with me.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think it’s alright.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Hope to meet more young women?
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing to say
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? (:
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