by SW chickie
Race/ethnicity: Native American/German
Current location: Oklahoma
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Social Worker
Relationship status: Separated on the never ending road to divorce
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Can be curious but haven’t made that leap
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
1st Time On Tinder, 1st Guy I Matched With That Was HOT
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 weeks ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Short fling
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I decided to try Tinder fairly late in the tinder scene. Met a seriously cute guy, traded numbers after 3 or 4 days of messaging before going to straight texting after exchanging phone numbers. I didn’t know him super well but felt comfortable. Never hooked up before with anyone so he is the first.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We decided to meet for dinner, after several convos he offered to cook me dinner at his place, I did a bit of a background check cause I had access to be able to do so, plus google can be your best friend. It did not start out as a hookup, but I did decide to meet him at his house. Precautions in place if he turned out to be an ax murder but he didn’t. Got to his house, he had just gotten off work, he showed me around, went to shower then we sat on his couch watching movies..however best intentions and all that we started making out and my God was he hot so I wanted him to take me to bed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I ended up sleeping over, he was super hot! We had sex 5 times and oral ect….. It was HOT SEX, I suprisingly was so comfortable and hot for him. He was very kind and sweet after and when we finally fell asleep I found he was a snuggler like I’ve never experienced before, he was very worried about how I felt about it during and after, he made sure I finished a few times! Not a selfish lover which was awesome! It was never awkward we continued to get To Know each other. Until we fell asleep, and sex again the next morning.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes I orgasmed every time as did he which surprised the hell out of me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did talk about STIs but used condoms. I’m fixed so pregnancy was not an issue.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Meet a hot guy who was damn sweet and I initiated which is surprising but he was all for it.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Only Two shots of vodka to calm nerves but I handle my liquor well so not drunk.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I still like him, we spent another full weekend together the next week and it was a fabulous repeat with more drinking but not drunkeness. We may stay friends, we may hookup again not really sure but we are still in contact.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Not a soul 🙂 I’m private and a social worker and that just isn’t something I want out about me.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Absolutely consensual for both
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Never. Best sex of my life.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t think it’s going to make me go out and have more hookups. Best thing was just being comfortable so I never regretted it. No real worst part.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? We are still friends, maybe another hookup in the picture ONLY WITH HIM, not really looking to make it a regular thing with just any guy.
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