What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Phoenix AZ
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Waitress
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
4 man hole in one
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? One of these guys I only knew for a few months. The rest I had known for years, but we had never done anything. There were 4 guys in total. Let’s call them “A” “B” “C” and “D” to make it easier.
Both A and D had dark brown hair, were very tall, and quite well hung. (I had heard this from people who were dating them at the time) B was into a lot of gore stuff, and C was the one I didn’t know that long, very shy, but for some reason struck me as the secret voyeur kind and turned you on before you knew you were!
A and D were in monogamous relationships with friends of mine, and I was surprised how things turned out. I had hung out with all of them at parties, and realized I really wanted to fuck all of them, but never acted on it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Each one happened separately, but in the same night.
After work, I met up with A at his place. We had plans to do a photo shoot, and he wanted my opinion on some of the work he was doing.
Then I left after I got a message from B about going out for a few drinks.
After that one I decided to go out by myself to a bar/club and ran into C there.
And then finally I saw D after that, and we ended up sneaking away after C wandered off (probably to the bathroom) and I texted him saying I had to go home because I was a bit drunk. Not that great to do, but D was a sexcapade I really couldn’t resist, and since I i heard all the juicy details about him from my friend who was dating him, I was way too horny and devilish to pass up finally being penetrated by his thick cock and draining it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So as I said, I went over to A’s place, and we set up the photo shoot. It was a boudoir shoot in underwear. After getting into the shoot for a bit, A mentioned that I have the most beautiful perky boobs. So I took off my bra and turned towards him, asking if he wanted to come closer for a few good head shots. He did, and after he snapped a few, I leaned into his ear with my hand on his belt and told him I was trying hard not to grab his dick. He said he realized how hard he was and tried to hide it, as he grabbed my breast and released a sigh, admitting how badly he wanted to fuck me.
I undid his belt and told him there was no point in us resisting. His pants came off and I started sucking his cock. Hard. After a few minutes he pulled me up forcefully, spun me around, pushed me over a table and thrust his huge cock in me balls deep, moving in a “come hither” motion with it that nearly made me cum in 10 seconds, but before that could happen, he pulled out and asked if I could do a split on the table with my pussy hanging off. The table was pretty low so I did, and had to hang on to the other side of the table with my hands. he slowly pushed himself back into me and I begged him to thrust. He did, and I could feel his balls hitting my clit with each thrust. I made him come when I came all over his cock, and he grabbed both of my hips as he pushed as far into me as he could, squirting his cum inside my wet vagina as he did.
Afterward, we realized he was going to be late for setting up a shoot with his gf, who was on her way. I helped him, and then left before she arrived.
Then I met up with B who had texted me asking if I wanted to grab drinks. We had some fun shooting the shit, & drinking. We talked about old horror movies, and then came to the conclusion that neither one of us had seen Rocky Horror in a while. We went back to his place to watch it and get pizza. We put it on mute at one point, making up lines to the movie. He made me laugh so hard that I turned to him and kissed him on the cheek. It was pretty innocent. A little while later I decided I would just blurt it out, and said “you know, we’ve never had sex together” and he said he would definitely be into it if I wanted to. I looked at him & said “I’m shaking with antici…..pation!”
Honestly I half thought he was joking. But no! He went in for a big tongue twirling smooch, and started rubbing my clit through my pants. I loved the friction feeling of implied sex, so I got on his lap and started grinding. He took my top & bra off and started licking my nipples. We ended up fucking right there in his living room, and in the middle of it he said we should go upstairs because his roommate might come back soon. So I challenged him to fuck me up the stairs. It was the funniest, most awkward sexual obstacle EVER.
We didn’t even get to the bedroom. Having accomplished the stair mission, we jack-hammer fucked against the wall, and when he had to cum, he covered my pussy in it & shot it all the way up my back. I was super surprised at how great his reach was! I mean, holy crap, that’s some Olympic cum squirting! Washed up, & told him I didn’t want to stay the night, and should probably leave, and so I did.
At this point it around 10, and I wanted to just chill and have a drink, so headed over to the bar/club.
On the dance floor I ran into C. Asked him how he was doing, etc. We went to the bar and he bought us drinks. We sat there people watching as everyone who was already lit became a writhing dance orgy, like a machine with too many live wires hanging about and nobody around to ground them all.
We teased each other about different personality quirks & drank.
C wanted to go out for a smoke, and I went with. I was poking fun at him for being shy, and then he blundered out “oh I’m shy? Where did you park, and do you wanna have a quickie in your car?”
I was caught so off guard that I just stared at him, and then thought “fuck it, he’s cute, and this has been a great night” so we went to my car, and screwed right there in my back seat. I was so wet that his condom slipped off, and we had to stop so he could put it back on. Before he did though I had to tease his dick a bit by playing “just the tip” in and out with my vagina. He groaned and pulled himself inside me for a few quick pumps, and then put the condom back on. He was so hard it didn’t take him long to finish, and I had butterflies in my stomach at the thought of being caught fucking in my car.
We went back into the bar for another drink,
And C got up saying he would be back in a bit.
When he left, D came up to me and said hello.
I asked him how it was going with my friend, the same usual pleasantries ete.
He said he was about to leave for another party and asked if I wanted to go, because I looked bored. I told him I was just tired, but sure- why not?
So we left, I texted C telling him I went home. I drove separately to meet D at the house party he was going to. When we got there it seemed like a college swinger party. There were couples making out on the couch in the living room to loud music.
We went to another room and grabbed beers, then sat on floor pillows listening to someone telling stories.
D started absent mindedly walking his hand up and Down my calf, and I am ticklish, so I grabbed his hand to stop, and we sat hand in hand for a while. I got a bit tired, and leaned into him for a disco nap. When I woke up, he was stroking my hair, and asked if I wanted a ride home. I told him he was comfy, so I didn’t want to cut it short, and sat myself on his lap. He was such an incredibly beautiful man.
I realized we were listening to someone telling an erotic story, and I started getting a bit wet. D asked why I was blushing. I told him what I thought of him. He told me he felt incredibly attracted to me, and I could feel the swell in his lap under me.
We were in a bit of a dark corner, and he reached inside my pants to finger me, with his thumb massaging my clit.
I made a soft whimper in his ear and told him I wanted more.
We went back to his house, and had a few drinks while playing a game of sexual dare.
This ended up with my ankles tied up in a sex trapeze above his bed, and he was teasing me full on, running his tongue over my nipples, my thighs, and my clit. He had me begging to suck his cock, and put it in my mouth. I worked the length of it with my tongue, and then he pulled back, and pushed it into my wet pussy slowly. He was so big i thought I was going to squirt all over him. He was thrusting in such even motion that I couldn’t hold back and begged to go harder. He did. He undid my ankles, and I wrapped my legs around him as he pumped . Then we sat up with legs wrapped around each other rocking back and forth fucking each other. We came at the same time, and he exploded inside me, one of the most powerful orgasms I’ve ever felt from a man before. We fell asleep naked.
In the morning I was horny again, and felt his cum still dripping out of me. We both got in the shower, and had sex again there, and I still couldn’t believe how someone could make me cum so hard.
I left after that.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had a great time. And I had sex with A and D again multiple times. Best sex I’ve ever had.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told nobody. You can’t tell people things like this and still have them think you’re not a slut
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Best sex ever.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? C wanted a relationship. Oops.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex is great if you’re smart about who your partner is.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It may have ended up being the reason why my friends didn’t date these guys for long.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s important to explore.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great sharing experience with anonymity
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