What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 64
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Indpls,In
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Sexless marriage
Religious affiliation: Zoroastian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Tri-sexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7000
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
5 Weeks In The Summer Of 69
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1969
What was your relationship status at the time? Run-away 15 year old
How would you best classify this hookup? No hookup
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a Movie star- I was a runaway teen. I was standing on the corner of Hollywood Boulevard and a side street early Saturday morning in the summer of 69 when Rock Hudson, who I knew as a movie star, pulled over and rolled down his window and started to talk to me about a ride. I waved him on because I needed to be paid. He came back a minute later and pulled up and got out. I explained I did not have sex for free even with a Movie Star. Up the street came a muscle man that had been after me to be in some gay porn films. I was 15. I had been in movies before and was not compensated for it. He rushed up and yelled out: “Hey You’re Rock Hudson!” He got in his car and drove off.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been forced to run away because of being chased by a rapist. I ended up in Hollywood with 57 cents when I was 15 with my Identical twin brother. We lived on the street with only the clothes on our backs.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Talking and looking at possibilities.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Not at all
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Never thought about it for years.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Money
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react?
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I should have gone to his home.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I meet a Movie Star.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? none
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? 100% for it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I know nothing about it.
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