Current location: Germany
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Single
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
A Flight Well Missed
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.5 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Two-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I saw her at an photography opening. A live band was playing, when she entered with a group of female and male friends. She had a pretty face and there was something in her look – something fresh, free, challenging and playful, that immediately caught my attention. I was curious about her and attracted, as I felt something is quite special about this woman. I did not approach her then, but was openly looking over to her in a way that said “It’s perfectly fine, that you notice that I am looking at you. I like what I see.” Her group left right after the concert, while my friends and me stayed there dancing for a few more hours.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Later that night we moved on to another party at a former dance hall. It was quite dark there with smoke, colored lights and mirrors on one side of the room, where I discovered her again. I really like it when a woman enjoys dancing, her body and her movements, and when she actually dares to move and play with that. She did. So I went to dance just a few meters away from her. Being very aware of each other, we were actually dancing together, although we didn’t touch and had sometimes a few meters between us. We were connected anyway and interacted in a very playful way, especially with exchanging looks. So there was some chemistry at work, when she offered me a sip from her beer, which I refused, and told her, that I don’t like the taste of it, which is strange for a bavarian guy and almost considered a sin. We laughed and continued our dance, getting closer. When she suddenly said: “Would you like to fuck with me tonight? You don’t have to answer that right away. You can think about it a bit.” I didn’t have to think for more than two seconds. She had this extemeley polite and diplomatic approch while being totally explicit at the same time. I loved that. “Yes” I said, penetrating her beutiful eyes with my look, then looking at her full lips and kissing her. After we enjoyed a few long, good kisses on the dancefloor she said: “Mmmm, you are a good kisser. So listen: the thing is, I have a flight to catch to Sweden tomorrow morning and I know it’s not perfect, having little time, so maybe if you don’t want to sleep with me tonight thats ok.” God, she was cute! She went to speak to her friend for a short while and then came back: “O.k. the friend I am staying will spend the night with her boyfriend, leaving us her flat. My things are already there and I can leave straight after.” We kept kissing and dancing and enjoyed our time there a lot. At one point she said: “I have to tell you something: I am a bit gay. Is that a problem for you?” “Why would that be a problem for me” I have no idea, why she said that, if she was thinking about a threesome or what was going on. A bit later (actually it had become quite late already), I notice a sad look on her face and ask her about it, when she said: “Maybe it is better if we don’t fuck today, as it is so late already. If that is ok with you?” This girl was full of surprises, and I was in such a good mood, enjoying every minute of that night that I just had to laugh. I asked her if I am supposed to say now “No, I insinst that we fuck, as agreed upon earlier. Changing plans is not ok with me.”??? and gave her a big hug telling her, that I was enjoying everything so much and that she is free to do what she feels like, obviously. We danced a little bit more, then I got my jacket, but didn’t leave right away and actually met her and her friend outside again. It was already 7 and daylight again. Her friend had a different way home, than her, but she didn’t know how to get home from the party, so her friend asked me if I knew the adress and said to her “I don’t know him, but I trust him to bring you home.” She seemed a bit guilty and asked if it’s really o.k. for me that I would show her the way home, now that we were not going to fuck. Wouldn’t I feel used? But I really enjoy being nice, so I walk her home and we go up to the flat. I see her plane tickets printed, ready at the door and half jokingly ask: “You have everyting? Tickets, passport..” And she is like “Nooo, I gave my ID card with my credit card and stuff to my friend, who is now not here in her flat, because she went to her boyfriend, to leave us the flat.” She tried to call her but didn’t reach her. So here we were: No ID – no flight. What can we do? Exactly! Now that we had all the time in the world we went straight to the bedroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we undress I look over to her, while she pulls off her pants: what an amazingly great looking ass! Why didn’t I notice that at all before? Was I too busy looking at her face before? I just had to tell her, that I loved it. (She didn’t miss mentioning, that she liked the look and feel of mine, too.) She also had nice frim tits and knew what she liked. We agreed, that we could tell each other, whatever we would like the other one to do, and it was everything at the same time: polite, explicit, loving, dirty and animalistic. She loved how I touched her with my hands all over her body and rubbing her vagina and clitoris. Cute, as she was, she asked how I learnt to do this so gooood. The tiny detail, that the kisses tasted of beer, might have turned me off, a tiny little bit, which I forgot very fast, due to the way she took care of my dick with lots of spit and curiosity. I entered her slowly and penetrated her deep and slow while holding her very tight and kissing. She also seemed to enjoy a finger in her ass and then told me, that she can’t climax without manual stimulation of her clit, when I turned her over, entering from behind, while reaching round, rubbing her wet clit with my hand. We fucked like animals. It felt amazing to thrust so hard, pushing her deep into the bed and feeling her come quickly under me. I kept going until she said: “You can really come now. I came already.” So I allowed myself to rush and let go and release.
We fell asleep very fast, but I woke up soon and didn’t fall asleep again. It was my first one-night stand, so I really had no idea, wheter I should stay to the morning, or rather leave, and let her wake up on her own. Well, I got dressed, but then I thought that at least I want to say goodbye and thank you, so I woke her up.She was great and said: “Don’t you wanna come in to bed again?” So I did that right away and after telling her my thoughts about my insecurity about the correct protocol, she said: “Next time, wake her up, while still naked.” It was a very tender and intimate atmosphere now and we had sex again, this time much more aware and awake and it felt even better. I only had one more condom, so we spent a lot of time talking and exchanging intimate touch in other ways until late afternoon.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Hell yes!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Attraction, curiosity, joy and a great time – and of course her straight forward move.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had two shots of vodca at the concert, but that was 8 hours before we left for her place. She must have had some beer, but was definitley able to make her decisions clearly.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We had exchanged numbers and facebook. And as she was in town 2 more days until her new flight I invited her to spend another night and morning with me, which we did at my place. The sex got even better and we also got to know and like each other a bit. We really loved our bodies, our moves and attitudes. She even asked why I don’t do porn and that I could easily do that. 😉 She was extremely hot and sweet. It was also a great adventure and it was clear it would be unique. I feel very grateful for that time. It was a perfect experience and helped me a lot in the way i feel about my sexuality. Thinking of her now, I could totaly imagine creating another crazy adventure with her. 😉
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend, who was honestly very happy for me, and only a little bit disappointed about me being so scarce with the spicy details. 🙂
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Hell yes.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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