What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Francisco
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Software
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Never met the woman before. She was stunningly beautiful. We met at the airport gate for an overnight flight.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was standing, waiting for a flight, at the gate. I had my first cell phone. I felt kind of cool because very few people had cell phone. I kept noticing one very cute, tall girl. I finished the call and went to a little tiny bar / news stand. There were only three stools. I took a stool, ordered a very strange drink combo, a beer and a lemonade. The very cute girl sat next to me and ordered a beer and a lemonade. I knew she was there for me. We started to chat. Soon we were called to board. The plane was pretty empty, so we decided to sit together. We get drinks on the plane. It’s an overnight flight, soon they shut off the lights. There is no one for rows around us.
She tells me that her psychic told her she would have sex on the plane.
I realized I was home free. But it was awkward. I had never gone straight from conversation to sex.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started to make out a little, but quickly wanted to get down to sex. We tried lying sideways. Didn’t work. Her on top. Didn’t work. Me on top. Didn’t work. We tried a bunch of different positions. Finally, she sat in the middle seat, I kneeled between her legs and all of a sudden it was easy. We had a great time, fucking for 10 minutes or so. We took a break and then did it again. After the second time, I noticed an old lady, about 8 rows back with an angry look on her face. the light above her was the only light on in the plane. We had been caught. So we stopped. I did not cum. I do not think she did either, but we both had the best time. We were giggling the rest of the flight.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We dated for a short while after that. We hooked up a number of times. My roommates did not like her. It turns out that she was somewhat famous as the result of a relationship with a very famous person in the music business who had died.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my buddies – they loved the story.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The girl was hot, very hot. Doing it on a plane was cool.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes – I liked the story and telling the story. I liked a very hot girl picking me to hook up.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I do not think I really like or have casual sex. I tried to make this into a relationship. We just were not very well matched intellectually. Physically, we were great together.
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