Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Over last year
How would you best classify this hookup? Booty call
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this younger guy (14 years younger) on a swingers site. I agreed to meet him on Christmas morning at Starbucks. He seemed nice but not really the type I’d want to have as a partner in the lifestyle. He was really shy. He had initially lied about his name but I had already found out his real name and called him out on it. He told the truth and I told him I’d call sometime. If he wouldn’t have told the truth I would’ve never called.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went out one night with a married guy who was in town. He had just left my bed when I got a text from this “boy”. He asked what I was doing so I said I was laying naked in bed. I asked what he was doing, and he responded “dropping everything and coming to where you are!” I thought, why not? So I gave him my address and he showed up shortly after.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He got naked right away and he went down on my pussy. I didn’t tell him I was just with another man a half hour before. It turned me on as I watched him lick me and enjoy it so much! That definitely made the orgasm intense. We then had sex several different ways; him on top, me on top etc.. until he came. As we were laying there, I told him about the man before him He asked why I didn’t say anything and I told him how much it turned me on, which he said turned him on then. I told him I was tired and he had to leave, which he did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We had discussed this prior to hooking up and I felt comfortable with not using condoms. I can not get pregnant so no precautions were needed for that.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? There are times I’m home alone and it’s nice to be able to call someone who is so available for a booty call. He knew that was all he was although sometimes he asked to go out which I never did.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had cocktails earlier in the night. He smelled of pot when he got here at 2 AM. Neither were out of control.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I called him several times over a few months.. He was always available at anytime I called him so it worked well until I got bored with him and and he started to ask about going out to dinner or somewhere with me. I wasn’t at all interested in dating him, so I moved on.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I would tell my friends. I let a friend listen to us once on the phone. I was going to facetime so they could watch but the boy didn’t want to. The people I told know me and don’t judge. Some enjoy the stories, others just shake their heads.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Everything I do is consensual and wanted. The boy really wanted the experience.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t regret it. I feel bad for having to shut the boy down when he was obviously showing interest but he was just a booty call.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was being able to call at anytime and know he would show up. The worst was having to tell him I wasn’t interested anymore. I am very comfortable with myself sexually.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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