Current location: Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Roman Catholic
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Sexually Aroused by big cocks
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Asian Delight With Latin Fusion
How long ago did this hookup happen? 10 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? 10 nights of pleasure
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was going through a difficult phase with my teenage son, he was selected to attend a military style disciplinarian school for his behavioral problems he was having in middle school. My business partner was going to Vietnam for 2 weeks to attend his nieces weddings. He invited me to vacation with his family there to get my mind off my son, as he was soon to begin his 2 weeks of boot camp training.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We arrived early afternoon in Ho Chi Minh City, my business partner’s sister greeted us at the airport and had a taxi drive us to the hotel. There was a bar/restaurant and we began to order cocktail drinks along with some appetizers. Soon they left me there alone. The D.J. started playing music and people were coming in towards the bar area. I was sitting alone when I noticed 3 non Asian men staring at me. I kept ordering more drinks and noticing the 3 men. One of them walked over towards me and began to speak to me in English. They were there on a business trip for a Mexican company.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The 1st impression I gave them, was they thought I was Italian. They began speaking in Spanish amongst themselves not knowing that I understood what they were talking about. Armando (the main man) proceeded to order tequila shots, to cheer our introduction. After hours of drinking and eating, I began feeling tired and sleepy from the long flight. My business partner and his sister had left me there while they went out shopping for the wedding. Armando offered to allow me to rest in his room while my friend came back. The bartender knew them and where they were staying, in case Doug didn’t find me. Once in the room, Armando began to hug and kiss me, he started touching my breasts and ass, one thing led to another and he began undressing me. We ended up in the jacuzzi tub touching, kissing and eventually I came out of the tub so he could perform oral sex on me. He enjoyed pleasuring me while I orgasmed and moaned in delight.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did not use condoms because it was oral sex he performed on me that first night. He knew I was tired from the trip, but he was attracted and aroused by me, as I was towards him.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was not planning on hooking up with anyone, it just happened. We were both attracted to each other and given that we were in Vietnam, it made the sexual escapade more intriguing.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Alcohol was a factor in this event, there were many drinks along with a few tequila shots we both had.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged phone numbers and email addresses, we kept in touch within the 1st year afterwards. He was hoping that I would relocate and move to Mexico City and eventually marry him. When I told him that I was a single mother raising a teenage son, his attitude changed dramatically. We lost communication and I have not heard from him since. Maybe we will reconnect through social networking sites but I’m not counting on that.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend Teri. She was excited and happy for me that I enjoyed my trip and sexcapade with a beautiful stranger.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual on both sides, we were lost souls and happened to find each other on the other side of the World. Sparks started flying everywhere.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets, just wonderful memories.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? We both were not expecting to meet, it was as if the Universe put us there temporarily to enjoy our sexual encounters together. But it fizzled out after the 10 nights of fireworks. I don’t feel ashamed or remorseful. I wish that he would have been a little more understanding and less demanding towards the friendship and allowed me time and space to see if this long distance love affair would have worked out. I cared for him, but I was dealing with many things and he just was not comprehending my feelings/emotions.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I wish him well, maybe we’ll cross paths again somewhere. This all happened for some reason, now that 10 years have passed, I may need to revisit Asia or Latin America.
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