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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Sacramento
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Backseat Blowjob

How long ago did this hookup happen? A couple of weeks ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S and I met on an online dating website, both attracted to each other physically but also enjoyed an intellectual connection (we talked over Skype, texted/sexted). He has a great athletic physique, tall with blonde hair and a very cute face. I felt a little strange talking to him because he is a few years younger than I am with much less life experience.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were talking about the drive-in movie theater and since both said we hadn’t been in a long while we agreed that would be a good place to go on a date. 50 Shades Darker was playing and our sexual tension was so built up from all the sexting we had been doing in the few days before the date that we felt very comfortable first holding hands then lightly kissing, instigated mostly by him. As we started to kiss more passionately, he suggested we move to the backseat to have more space.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I climbed onto his lap and continued deeply kissing him while his hands were delicately exploring my body. He undid my bra and pants, I could see where this was going and since I was still bleeding a little bit from having my period I told him to sit back and let me pleasure him. I kissed him lightly on his neck and could feel him getting rock hard through his pants. He pulled his cock out and guided my head down onto him showing dominance that I surprisingly liked. I teased him tremendously licking, kissing, and swirling my tongue around the head of his cock while making eye contact and smilingly up at him intermittently. I could tell he was getting close so I grabbed the base of his cock and pulled him all the way in massaging below the tip with my tongue. After about a minute of this, he told me he was going to cum and it did so in my mouth whichever I swallowed immediately feeling powerful that I could be the cause of so much pleasure. After that, we kissed more but it was late so he took me home pretty soon after.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt fine about the hookup for about a day and then felt ridden with same and guilt because I never do things like that (hooking up in public without people I hardly know). I’ve since forgiven myself but probably won’t ever do anything like that again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend was very surprised when I told her about my date. She (and her boyfriend, whom she told) said it was very “unclassy” which truly hurt my feelings.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? I should have waited until after a few more dates to give a blow job and definitely not in public.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? At the time, I felt very empowered and daring.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The daring and empowering feeling quickly faded.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I want to be casual about sex but my moral ideas get in the way. I’m glad other people can hookup casually, it gives me hope that I can eventually get to that point in my sexuality.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? S is a Mormon and won’t have sex until marriage which is so disappointing because I’m so attracted to him and I think that’s why I was so willing to pleasure him.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is a great way to discover sexual likes/dislikes, I wish it wasn’t viewed at trashy so often. We should embrace our natural desire to be with multiple partners, I think everyone has this thought.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great way to get out a sexual story without judgement.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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