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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Austin TX
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Financial management intern
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dominant
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 11
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Bad Case Of Whiskey Dick

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? V is a short white-washed latina with an athletic body and an ass that could make a man leave his wife. I’m getting hard just thinking about it. Her personality is just like mine and I’ve come to find she is the fact the girl of my dreams

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve wanted V since the first moment I saw her when we met freshmen year of college. That was 3 years ago. We became close but up until this summer she was in a relationship which made it hard to make a move. When she broke up I asked her out and we’ve been grabbing meals and going to jazz clubs for about a month or so. Nothing serious, wouldn’t even call it casually dating. I had to cancel our latest date because of a family emergency that called me back home to Brooklyn. When I got back to Austin we scheduled a make up date for brunch on Sunday. We got to brunch and had to wait a while to be seated so we proceeded to grab quite a few drinks at the bar. We finally get seated and eat, and continue to get bombed off mimosas. After brunch we go bar hopping to celebrate sunday funday. We leave the final bar and this point we’re both trashed. We get in the car and head back to her apartment to keep drinking

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We get to her place and open up a bottle of wine. I’m drunk and feeling extra confident so I turn on some Sinatra (my personal hero) and ask her to dance. While we’re dancing in her living room, I just can’t help myself and have to make a grab on an ass that was sculpted by the gods. I latch on and wait for her reaction and she just looks at me and smiles. So I decide to push a little more and start to nibble on her ear and kiss her neck. Things start moving quicker and now her romper is off and she’s straddling me on the floor as we’re making out. I move to take off her bra and while I’m doing that she starts unzipping my pants. She moves in to start blowing me but I tell her ladies first, pick her up, place her on the couch, remove her thong, and go to town. I genuinely love eating pussy so I’m taking my time and using every oral trick I know to bring her pleasure. After a few minutes, her legs tighten around my head and she has the first orgasm of the day. Before she even has a chance to catch her breath, I’m wiping off my face and back down there ready to go again. Now I’m sucking on the the clit and fingering her and after another few minutes I coax another orgasm from her. Then she grabs my hair and tell me she needs me inside of her now. I didn’t have a condom so I asked if she was okay with that and she pulls me up and whispers in my ear “I want you to cum in me, fill me up”. So now we’re back on the floor and she’s straddling me completely naked and then she looks at me and asks if I’m okay. At this point, I realize that junior is a limp noodle. I tell her I am sorry and that I had too much to drink. I tried to play it cool but on the inside of was pissed the fuck off because here was my chance to close with the girl of my dreams and I killed my chance with to much alcohol. She tried to get junior to wake up but he was down for the count so I just threw in the towel. We were both still trashed so we just go to her bed and sleep it off

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We wake up and I call a car to get home. Remember that this is the girl of my dreams so as I leave I’m thinking this is my chance to start something up. Boy was I wrong. She texts me that night and says “We never speak of this. You’re friendship means too much to me” I reply and keep trying to get her to drop the friend thing and realize that we could be great together, but no dice on that one. I may be the only guy in history who essentially fucked the love of his life and then got placed in the friendzone within the same day. In the words of my good friend “It be like that sometimes”

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I texted my roommate/ best friend in the car ride home and he was excited for me

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Almost sealing the deal with the potential love of my life.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being friendzoned afterward

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m gonna cut back on the drinking so if I ever get another shot, I don’t get stuck with whiskey dick

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is great. I try to keep my emotions at bay because I believe they complicate things. So casual sex is the best thing to me because it’s just pure carnal desire

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love the site. Read it often

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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