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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Attorney
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Jewish
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 9

BDSM Orgy in the Dungeon

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Very hot and beautiful crowd. Age range 21 – early 40’s. Mostly 20’s and 30’s. Met all of them (except for one couple we knew) that evening.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were invited to a BDSM house party with a full working dungeon.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? First we met the crowd, talked, drank, flirted. Then the host did some BDSM demonstrations in the dungeon. After that, his girlfriend and another smoking hot girl put on a girl/girl show for everyone. Then the host did a spanking demo on my girlfriend while she sucked me in front of a crowd. Finally, we joined the orgy room where we had sex for about 90 minutes. Everyone else in the orgy room were in their 20’s and very kinky. Best line I heard – from a 21 year old female, said to her girlfriend (they were both taking a break in the orgy room while watching us fuck): “Being tied to a doorknob and forced to orgasm is very good for your abs”.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We drove home and my girlfriend said to me: that was surreal. Felt great the next day. It was a very sexually charged party. We enjoyed putting on a show for the crowd and watching others put on a show.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends, they were very impressed.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was extremely turned on and the sex was great – really enjoyed watching girl/girl sex and other people fucking in the orgy room.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Long drive to the party.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Makes me want more casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? We love house parties.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love casual sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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