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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? Indian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Kuala Lumpur
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20-25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

A Blind Cunnilingus Date

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago in 2015

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a young professional from the finance world, with medium length black hair and spectacles, and had answered an advert I’d placed in AdPost or Craigslist (I forget which) about being willing to give a woman cunnilingus. We hooked up on WeChat and she sent me some erotic pictures of cunnilingus taking place, which certainly started my pulse racing. Her main concern was whether I wanted her to reciprocate, which she did not want to do, and also – she wanted me to keep my clothes on. I was fine with these terms, so we arranged to meet that day, at a local hotel. I was excited as hell of course…I love licking pussy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began in our hotel room, and my Craiglist Ad led to it.
Some planning was involved – I had to book the hotel – I was the instigator.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We chatted a little, I tried to make her comfortable – made her a hot cup of tea, and asked her why she was doing this.
She shared that she’d always had a fantasy about being licked by a stranger , especially from her experiences watching Sex & the City.
I was very comfortable with the whole thing, and I guess she felt that so she willingly took off her skirt and panties,and blouse – though she left her bra on, and lay back on the bed.
I took my time. I love pussy, and I wanted to make her experience worthwhile and memorable…. I gave it all I had, and was rewarded by her moans and her eventually taking my hand and slipping it under her bra and onto her breast. Midway she literally drenched the bed in her fluids – she was a gusher.
We went on like this till she was a little weak and drowsy, so we took a break and rested up a bit.
Then we carried on – I licked and sucked her everywhere. I strongly believe she was a virgin, so I did not attempt any penetration with my fingers….her cunt juices tasted…so interesting…
It ended naturally, about 2 hrs later, and she dressed and left after a polite goodbye and a comment that it was all she had ever expected and more.
We never even kissed, LOL.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing happened.
We remained Wechat friends, but she never communicated with me again, though I said hi a couple of times.
I felt amazed that day and the next and still am amazed till today that the whole thing happened. I guess there is certainly a Hidden World out there. LOL

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I spoke to no one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Just getting into a young woman’s pussy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. Except a bit of blue balls.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Its made me realise a whole lot goes on in the world that we are not aware of.
This girl was from a section of society where this activity is really unusual and forbidden, supposedly, and yet!!!!!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’ve been trained to think that casual sex is wrong and a sin. I still think that way. But it hasn’t stopped me from trying my level best to get some casual sex.
However, casual sex can be unfulfilling from the connection and emotional closeness point of view. You end up really wanting affection yet no strings, and its a tough boundary to navigate.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting! I like reading your material.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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