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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? NYC
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Mt
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Booty Call

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 yr ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He has the nicest honey eyes. I met him at work. He’d come by to do some work in the area where I was stationed and me being a social person, started talking to him.
He was so cute to me. Still is.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day, he came by my station on a weekend when I was alone. By this point, we were already on friendly terms but never openly suggesting more than your typical work relationship. Still, when he’d come by, I’d obviously become happy and interested, flirty you could say. This particular day, we talked a bit more than usual. Somehow, we began talking about sex and our sex lives. By that point, we realized we both wanted sex and not a relationship. We went home together that day.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? To this point, it’s the best sex I’ve ever had. I had so many orgasm, just the thought of him makes me horny and relive those moments. It was fun. I didn’t hook up with him again till six months later and now again. It’s always great sex, but he’s afraid I’ll fall for him or vice versa

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt somewhat guilty because the day before this hook up, I had had sex with someone I was dating, but it was not good at all. I figured it might’ve been because it was our first time together, but it never improved. I did not regret having sex with honey eyes though. I was left so absolutely unsatisfied by my date and I needed to release tension and honey eye was there to do just that

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friends, they know me enough to not judge me on this or anything else

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The most amazing set of orgasms

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it won’t happen again for six months!!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I felt free from my previous attachments.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I am a human who needs sex with men I like. Consented enthusiastic sex on both parts is a great way to begin releasing sexual energy

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