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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Boston Creampie

How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was blond, average height, in her early 30s, and a little thick but not quite overweight. She had tattoos all over and was in the Coast Guard stationed in Boston.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in intense military training in New England for the 10 weeks prior. Essentially, this weekend was a “jailbreak” from weeks of what was like boot camp. I came to Boston with four of my friends that were in my class, it was our first true weekend free. We had to wear our uniforms out the whole time, which was nice, we did not pay for a single drink and the ladies were true suckers for that uniform. We were all in great shape from weeks of push-ups, calisthenics, running, and no alcohol. We literally could do no wrong. I hit on one woman, and her boyfriend buys me a drink. I was hitting on women all night, and it was easy, I could not focus on one, and the attention we got was endless. In the drunkenness that ensued, I lost track of my friends and I was at a bar alone, and it was getting late. That’s when I decided to focus on one woman. She was at the bar alone-I am not sure who approached who first, but I definitely remember her telling me she loved a man in a uniform. She buys me a drink, and we talk for a while. I have no idea how long, given my lack of sobriety. We agree to leave and go back to her place.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? On the taxi ride over, she tells me she is married but separated. Hopefully, her husband was not on a mission and she was a “deployment separated.” When we get to her place, it is an absolute mess – clothes all over the place. We had to clear a spot on the bed so I could lie down. She wastes no time, I don’t think we even kiss (at least I do not remember it 9 years down the road). She pulls down my pants and is giving me head. Before I know it, she grabs a condom and quickly puts it on me, then starts riding me (her on top). She’s in total control and takes herself to orgasm. I did not do much of the work, and in the middle, she says “I should do this more often.” Given her no-nonsense approach and her quickness and skill in applying the condom, I think she does this more often than she lets on. But hey, “I don’t usually do this” is basically a cliche of one night stands with women. No complaints here though. I then take over and start pounding away. Between the condom and being drunk, I am not feeling much. I ask if we can take it off, and she says she trusts me and the condom is removed. We remain with her on top, and still no orgasm. We changed to doggy style, then all of a sudden I’m a minute man. I don’t know what it was, but I come in her and all my tension from the previous 10 or so weeks of boot camp is gone. I pull out, she cleans up, and we rest for a while. We go for Round 2, but I am still way too drunk to come (or maybe it all came out with the first round), we stop, then sleep for the night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We wake the next day, and I give her a hug, say goodbye and she wishes me luck with everything. I wish I would have gone for a morning round but for some reason did not.

My friends ended up at a strip club, with mobsters buying them drinks and lap dances all night. I don’t think any of them got lucky, but if they were just slightly more aggressive I have no doubt they could have.

I very rarely donned the uniform and went out to the bar from this point forward, unless it was after a formal event and we all just happened to go to the bar. I am now out of the military.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I met up with my friends the next day. One of my friends fingered a girl at the bar, and when he sees me come into the hotel room he wakes up and says “smell my finger.” I then say “oh yeah, smell my cock.” My friends were all amused.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting laid after being cooped up for 10 weeks.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was just a one night stand. It would have been fun to have sex with this woman more. Being so drunk that I only had one orgasm. Also not using protection was a bad idea. Luckily I got nothing, and I hope she did not get pregnant (she said she was on birth control.)

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I answered this question in my other two stories.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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