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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chandler
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Photographer and SAHM
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m a submissive and masochist
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He messaged me on Fetlife saying he loved my nude pictures and my writings, asking if it would be possible to chat and get to know me. He is also married and in an open marriage, so that appealed to me. I saw pics of him (minus his head) and he has a great body, and was wearing a suit. I told him I wanted to see what his face looked like before we met, so he sent me a pic of himself. He was hot! Half Dominican and half Spanish, chest, arms, back covered in tats, deep brown eyes, he was beautiful. I agreed to do a meetup with him, but just a quick no sex meeting. I wasn’t expecting too much, wasn’t even sure I’d like him, but decided to meet hm to find out.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He messaged me he was in my area and would I like to meet up outside a Whole Foods.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He was running errands and had a little time before he had to be home. I said sure, then he ordered me to wear something with easy access to my tits (I knew how much he loved my pierced nipples and DD boobs, and I told him how much I loved tit torture) so he could get his hands on them. I wore a maxi dress that I could slip my tits right out of without taking anything off. When I pulled into the parking lot, he texted me where to park, hopped in my car, and first thing he said to me was, “Hey slut, pull out your tits so I can examine them.” It got me so hot, he radiated power and dominance, it was just natural for him, and my body reacted very strongly to his presence. I pulled them out, then he started sucking on my nipples, while playing with my other one. He then pulled back, looked at me then started slapping my tits – the pain and the fact we were in a public place got me hotter and hotter. He’d slap and hit, then sooth my tits with kissing and soft sucking, then do it all over again. I’ve never gotten to sub space with a first encounter before, but here he was, with just his own personal Dom energy, bringing me higher and higher. At one point, I reached for his cock, but he then slapped my face, telling me he didn’t give me permission yet, and that he was in charge, not me. Then he continued beating my tits, the pain turning into pure pleasure. By the time I was panting and ready to fuck him in front of the whole store, he stopped, took my hand, placed it on his HUGE hard cock over his pants, and asked me if I wanted to suck him off. I begged him to let me fuck my face onto him, that I wanted to repay him for what he did. He looked at me, then said, nope, I needed to earn the privilege of his cock, then ordered me to drive home with my tits out of my dress and take a vid to prove it to him. I did, and somehow, I made it home, feeling so fulfilled and satiated, even though I hadn’t had a traditional orgasm.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great about the hook up. My tits were bruised, the perfect reminder of our intense encounter. We’ve become regular play partners, and I enjoy what we have greatly.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Submission / Relinquishing power, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my husband, my BDSM mentor, and my BDSM “sister.”

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The power exchange and how fast he got me to sub space.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it ended too quick

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, because of this play partner I now have, I’ve realized I’m into degradation and humiliation, something I thought I’d never be into.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think that casual sex is not for everyone, there are certain expectations you need to manage to be able to do it, but it’s been a very positive thing for me. My husband of 18 years is supportive. our saying is no one person can fulfill everything in you, it’s selfish to think that and unreasonable, plus, sex is suppose to be fun as well! Why not enjoy it if everyone is consenting?!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s a great idea

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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