What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA, Ohio
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? International export agent
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Mother of two
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7 now lol
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? Almost 1 year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met him through friends about 17 years ago. He was married, I single and started to baby sit his children for him and his wife. He’s about 5’10” blonde hair, blue eyes. Slender build and about a seven inch cock, not to thick. I wouldn’t fuck him while he was married but he caught me in his bathroom washing my hands. Came up behind me and wrapped his arms around me and kissed my neck. I could feel his erecting pushing up against me and I had to have it in my hand. I turned around, we kissed I felt his cock through his pants and then we stopped. I told him not until he was single. Every time then on, we shared ” fuck me ” looks from cross the room. I stopped watching his kids and started dating my note husband.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began last year after he sent me a Facebook message or of no where. My husband said he was looking to fuck me but I didn’t think so after so many years. So I started flirting with him and brought up the past, the connection was irresistible. I had to have him. My husband jokingly said I dare you, to invite him over. I did and he agreed, I told my husband I was going to follow through and wanted him to watch from out side our bedroom. ( we had talked about doing something like this through the years but we never followed through, this time I was going with it no matter what)
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My husband went out side to the back yard when he pulled up. I drank a bottle of wine to calm my nerves before he arrived. When he came in we walked to the bedroom, he kissed me, ripped my clothes off and threw me on the bed and immediately went down on me. I was in heaven, all the anticipation built up was released into the most satisfying orgasm, I squirted all over his face. My husband was the furthest from my mind. 30 minutes of orgasm after orgasm from him sucking on me. I sucked his cock which was nice and long. He fucked me like I’d never been fucked before. He pounded me deep,hard and without prejudice. I have never had so many Orgasm’s in my life. I rode him hard reverse cowgirl so my husband could see the look of pure pleasure on my face. He pounded me for over an hour of just steady rhythm, with deep long strokes. I screamed for him to cum inside me. Through the passionate kisses, the sweat, and intense cumming I had to feel him squirt in me. When he came, he pounded me from behind so hard, pulling my hair and whispered in my ear I own your pussy, it turned me on so much I came instantly. Feeling him squirt his cum in me was more than satisfying. After we caught our breath, we talked about doing it again as often as possible while holding each other. I completly forgot about my husband. We dressed and he left. My husband came in with this look of defeat on his face. He knew what I knew. From that day on sex with my husband had been nothing short of amazing.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great. I wanted another hook up but it just never worked out. My bucket list fuck was everything I hoped it would be. Given a moment’s notice, if jump on him again and again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband only. We are good now, it took a while but it was the best thing for our sex life. I still think of the way he owned my pussy and want him to again someday
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? My sex life changed with my husband for the better. Not that we thought it was bad. But after the fucking he gave me, we both knew he needed to step up.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I haven’t fucked him again, he moved in with his girlfriend
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely,
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Can’t wait to have someone completly strange to me fuck me like that.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m in.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Still new to me but it works
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