What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Perth
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Over a year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was in her mid twenties, dirty blonde, slim and pretty. I only met her that night. I had arrived in Queenstown in NZ for a weeks break and I was staying in a local hostel. A friend that I had met that day and I had been drinking before we headed out to a local bar. When we got there we bumped into 2 ladies in their 20s and we all ended up getting a table together. It didnt take long for us to realize who was hooking up with who, though we all played innocent until the beverages began to take their toll.
We moved onto another bar (which was practically deserted), at which one of the more interesting events that Ive ever witnessed occurred. After a round of shots, my friend and his lady had sat opposite us at a table reminiscent of the booths that were prevalent in the stereotypical 1950’s American cafe. He and his lady had been making out for a while now, whereas I hadnt yet made a move on my further partner. After breaking off a recent make out session, it was evident that there was some heavy petting going on under the table. At one point I made eye contact with my friend, who had the largest grin on his face. We proceed to have a conversation via eyebrows, in which we relayed that he was getting a handjob under the table. At the time I didnt know whether to high five him or look away in awkwardness! Shortly after this his lady went to the bathroom, in which I asked him straight out how was it, to which he replied awesome! Unfortunately, his intended for the night returned from the bathroom and left straight away (later found out that she had thrown up), with my friend following her. That left me with this beautiful Canadian girl to entertain.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We left that bar and went to another that was alot busier than the last,and its at this point that my memory becomes hazy, in no small part due to alcohol consumption. I remember we danced for a while before discussing where was our final location. It turned out that she was in the same hostel as I but we were both sharing the rooms with other people so privacy was going to be a no no. I then came up with the bright idea; I had a SUV that I had hired parked on a quiet street. I suggested this to her, and the next thing I know we were climbing into the back seat after I had turned the engine on and turned the aircon on (it was like 5 degrees outside).
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My memory gets even worse at this stage but I do remember sliding my hard cock into her dripping pussy. We fucked in the back of that SUV for how long I’m not sure. I also realized that the quiet street that I had parked on wasn’t as quiet as I had thought, becoming aware of small groups of people waking past. It was pretty obvious what was going on, as the windows had fully steamed up at this point, not to mention the inevitable suspension rocking and the engine idling! Someone even shouted “WAAHHHEEYYY” at one stage to which we both just laughed and continued. No need to interrupt a good thing! Eventually I realized that I wasn’t going to cum, much to her dismay. I had to explain that it was nothing to do with her and more like a case of whiskey dick.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After we retrieved our clothes from all over the car we went back to the hostel, where I crashed in her bed for the night. We ended up having another 2 hookups over the course of the time I was there, which I hope to put up here at some stage in the future
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did tell my friend the next day, to which he gave me a high five
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity, exciting sex with an attractive partner
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not being able to cum
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think society’s viewpoints on casual sex has relaxed alot over the years. even more so in recent times due to the rise of Tinder and other dating apps aimed at stripping daway the emotional connection and intimacy needed before letting someone explore your most personal parts, especially on a woman’s side.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Think its a fantastic forum for people to share their experiences and hopefully educate that it shouldnt be frowned upon.
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