What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Texas, USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Leather, BDSM, adventurous
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 63
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Cards Against Humanity Winner
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was much younger than I am … barely 21. He was skinny but cute in his own twink way. I met him that day the first time. We were at a private campground that serves as a retreat for gay men and private groups. I thought he was kinda cute but wasn’t really interested in fucking him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? There was a group of 15 of us sitting at picnic tables. Most of us were naked and being very flirtatious. He was sitting beside me as we were playing Cards Against Humanity. It began when he reached over and started rubbing my cock randomly.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He continued to rub my cock and got me hard as I began to rub his. I leaned down and gave him a little bit of of head. Then he crawled on top of me and started riding my cock hard. He was so small that I could still sit at the picnic table with him in my lap riding my cock. As we fucked, he continued to throw cards out during each round of the game and we won several of them. It was my first time having sex in public, let alone in front of so many people. I stroked him hard and milked him dry. It inspired the other guys and soon there was a nice group thing going. Hot as fuck!!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was so satisfied with it and it was truly a no strings. We hang out every now and again and I’d fuck him again if the time is right. This was nothing more than a let’s get eachother off experience.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends and they thought it was hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was a fantasy being lived out.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is amazing. Love to play and have fun
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like it and like to share
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