by The wife
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales/marketing
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 Months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a guy from work. New to the team and very attractive. I had a crush on him and even told my husband. Husband was a little turned on by that, but insecure. My husband would go as far as fantasizing about it in bed, but would be crushed if it ever really happened.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a conference together. No one else on the trip and went out for supper every night together and drinking after.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One night, we had drinks with dinner and even followed dinner up with going out for more drinks. We ended up back at the hotel and decided we should go swimming. We met back down at the hot tub. I was pretty tipsy. After a while in the hot tub I could feel the effects of the drinks more. We had been flirting even more. Him with no shirt and me in my bathing suit only added to the sexual tension.
We got done and went to our rooms. Mine was only a few down from his. We stopped at his door and he invited me in. I declined saying I needed to call my husband. I already had many missed calls from him.
He grabbed me by the waist and pulled my in for a hug, I felt. Once his chest was tight against mine, I lost it and we began to make out. We fell into his room and we were naked before we knew it.
I got on my knees and began to lick and suck his cock. It was bigger than my husbands, so the curiosity added to the hornyness I was feeling.
That only lasted a few minutes and I pushed him to the ground and rode him. It didn’t take long and I came.
One I did, he picked me up and put me on all fours and began to fuck me harder than I have ever been fucked. I came a second time. He was getting close and asked where he should come. I had my tubes tied and didn’t care and honestly wanted to feel him come inside. Once I told him to come in me, he came instantly.
We cleaned ourselves up, I collected my bathing suit and towel, and went back to my room.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After I went back to my room, changed, and I called my husband. He could tell I was drunk. I tried to tell him I just got in for the night, but he knew I had been back at the hotel for a while (find my friends app).
He caught me in the lie. I told him that I just went to the hot tub with my coworker. I left the rest out. He was pretty jealous, but I knew that he wouldn’t want to hear the rest.
While it was amazing I don’t know if I could do it again. I feel guilty for not telling my husband. I still work with the guy and there is still quite abbot of sexual tension. If we travelled together again, it would not be hard for him to break down my resistance.
I secretly want my husband to put his fantasy to fruition. I wouldn’t be able to tell him about this, but future times would have his consent.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I’m married to someone else
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His size compared to what I am used to and the build up of sexual tension leading to the explosion of sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I’m married
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Definitely
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Intriguing
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