What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I’ve known Julian my whole life, our mums are old school friends and would occasionally meet up every so often. As a child Juilian was a bit chubby and I never thought he was cute. Until he was 16. He lost the puppy fat and grew his hair out which I loved about guys. Still I was too shy to make a move back then. We flirted a little bit when we were 16 but nothing happened. I was very attracted to him, he was so smart and sexy. However life caught up on us and I began dating other guys at my own school. I hadn’t seen him for years until now…
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? 3 months ago our families went to the coast for the weekend to celebrate his mums 50th birthday. When he arrived, he looked so different I had no clue who he was… Either way I immediately knew I wanted to hook up with this mystery guy. There was a big group of us camping so from a distance he smiled and waved at me and I waved back. Julian soon walked over and said its been a while and how much I’ve changed. I could already tell he was flirting. We couldn’t resist. We sat down near the beach and had a few drinks together while catching up. Later, I went to the beach to go swimming in the ocean. There were a group of guys playing football off to the side and a very muscly guy started hitting on me. He was so hot I smiled back as I stripped off to my bikini and went into the ocean. He followed and we rode some waves together, laughing and talking the whole time. Afterwards at dinner time, Julian brought me a plate of food and sat down next to me. He curiously asked if I knew the guy I was swimming with. I said no. He was jealous. I asked why and he shyly laughed. He then asked if I wanted to go for a walk. We walked up the beach and stopped at a secluded area with benches. It was pitch dark and you could barely see the campsite. We sat down on the benches and stared out at the water. We then kissed. I don’t know who instigated it, I think it was me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed for a few moments, which then turned into making out on the bench. He was on top of me, sliding his hand up my stomach and grabbing at my breast. I could feel his bulge rubbing against my groin it was making me sopping wet. I then began undoing his jeans and shoving my hand into his jocks, giving him a handjob. He then slid of my bikini bottoms and and slid into me. He went so deep I let out the biggest moan. He put his hand over my mouth and kept fucking me. The bench beneath me was digging into my back, but I didn’t care. This was the hottest fuck I’ve ever had and I didn’t care for the bruises I knew I was going to get. I opened my eyes to see him staring back at me, he then panted “I’ve wanted to fuck you for so long” which I relied “me too”. He soon after slowed down and pulled out, suddenly cuming onto my stomach. He laughed a bit and said sorry. But I was glad that he didn’t cum inside of me as we didn’t have a condom with us at the time.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards I went down to the water and jumped in (cleaning off my stomach) and he joined. We were both still naked and so we swam together and contained to make out on the ocean. We talked a bit and he said he was really jealous of the guy I swam with earlier and he knew he had to kiss me.
The next day we continued to hook up secretly away from our families. Once in the public toilets and also in my tent. It was unbelievably hot. He also picked up some condoms from the corner store which made me want to keep going at it for longer.
We exchanged numbers when we headed back to the city and recently went on a date which turned into another sex session at his house. We’ve continued to hook up frequently since but he’s moving to another city soon for school and we’ve agreed that’s as far as we’ll go as we don’t want a long distance thing.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of my friends
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Finally hooking up after knowing each other our whole lives!! The best thing was just getting to know him so much more on a personal level and getting to hook up with him multiple times over the past few months. He also has an amazing body and a decent package which I can’t complain about…
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That he’s moving away and we can’t continue whatever we have going, either staying FWB or progressing into something more. I possibly have more feelings for him than I expected and am finding it hard to move on.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes for sure, I never had ‘casual sex’ before Julian. Just random one night stands. I’m so much more sexual now and can’t get enough of it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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