by: Shane

Gender: Male
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: White
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8

Country Road

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 Years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Sex with an ex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was black, short and had some nice curves. She had some nice D breasts and a big booty. We had dated before so we knew each other pretty well. We were kinda on bad terms.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had just started dating this new girl and was not super into her at first as I had rushed into things. My ex wanted me back and was texting me a lot. She worked her angles and we ended up sexting. It was pretty late at night so we both got super horny and just decided to meet up. She came by my place (shared it with other people at the time) and I got in her car.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We drove out to an old country road and things were awkward at first. Eventually we started making out and she got on top of me. I took her top off and started sucking on her tits. She had not even bothered wearing a bra. She got really into it and stripped me down before giving me head. She was pretty good at it but did not do it very long before she asked me to fuck her. I put on a condom and started fucking her pussy. We both got really into it and since it was the summer it got super hot in the car. Eventually we just got out of the car and started fucking on the hood of her car. It was a different sort of situation and we both kinda got off on it. She was moaning pretty loud and her tits were bouncing all over the place. When I was about to cum she squatted down and I came all over her tits. She sucked me a little after that and then we got dressed and she drove me home. We did not really talk on the ride back except to say how awesome the sex was.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I came at the end and she came 2 or 3 times.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? She was on birth control and I used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were both horny and very attracted to each other.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt pretty guilty and she was pretty pissed that we did not end up back together. We hooked up a few more times after that but that was the best time by far.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone about it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? A little. It was great sex but she was my ex and I had no intentions of getting back together with her. Plus I felt a little bad about cheating on my girlfriend at the time.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was fantastic and kinky. But it was cheating and that made me guilty.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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