What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Usa
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Firefighter
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a younger tight bodied blonde from the south, but also the wife of a coworker so off limits. We would often gravitate by each other at events and gatherings our own spouses there at the time as well. At first it seemed innocent I thought nothing of it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day she sent me a private text just asking something benign again I thought nothing of it. Our conversation became more n more flirtatious. Soon she was sending me pics of her tight hot body and teasing me. I wanted her bad and knew she wanted me. One weekend arrived that both our spouses were out of town, we agreed to meet up somewhere discreet.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We meet in a parking lot and went for a ride just outside of town. She was dressed in a skirt and simple shirt, her firm beautiful legs doing just as they intended to me. While driving she leaned over and started kissing my neck my free hand roamed up her leg, feeling her soft wet spot. Had to pull off or wreck so found a dirt road to no where in particular. As I pulled off she slipped her skirt off and began to masturbate while I watched, I would slide my hand over hers and both our fingers would go into her. Soon I could take no more, I slipped my pants and shirt off and climbed into the back seat. She followed straddling me and slowly sliding down onto me. We both had amazing orgasms .. And this started a short but very hot affair.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We continued to be friends until they moved away and still contact via messages once in a while.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Being someone I know and likes wife was unfair
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The memories
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little positive
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great forum to those of us who have lived this life style,be it currently or before
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