What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? landscaping
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Accepting
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Craigslist Hiking Buddy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I live in a small town with lots of hiking areas. I was browsing craiglist casual encounters and found a lady who was looking for a hiking buddy. I emailed her and she got right back to me with a pic that looked older than me. We started talking and she was hilarious. We talked for a month before meeting and sent many pictures. She actually was very pretty and had a really nice body.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met in a parking lot with a plan to go hiking and hookup and stay at a spa. She seemed nervous and new to this, I gave her a hug and we talked a lot on the drive. On the hike, the vibe was still slightly nervous. We saw some kids, they whispered that we were going to have sex which was funny.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We found a private spot and she sat on a log. I asked if she wanted to have sex and she said yes and undid my pants. I was standing in front of her and she sucked my dick, saying I was a stud. We took our pants off and she pulled her legs up, I fucked her and she came right away and squirted a stream up onto my shirt. After that, I wanted to go to the spa to get more comfortable so we left and smoked some weed and it was very quiet for a while. At the spa, we bathed naked and went to our room where we had sex for hours. She would lay on her stomach and let me enter her pink pussy from behind, she came easily and many times. I have a lot of stamina and like to postpone orgasms so it went on like this for hours. She had an IUD so I came inside her several times. Finally, she got on top of me and squirted all over my chest which I loved. We fell asleep after that and had to leave very early in the morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept in touch and repeated our date about five more times. We had sex in the woods, anal sex, lots of squirting, it was great.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My friends, they thought she was hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had sex in the woods a couple times, also I got more anal experience, also we talked very dirty to each other on the phone so it was fun when we actually met. She knew I loved squirting so she wasn’t shy about it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I love casual sex, especially with a good partner.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It can be really good at the right timing in peoples lives,
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I find it therapeutic to share my positive experiences with everyone.
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