What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Brooklyn, New York
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Photogropher
What’s your current relationship status?
Religious affiliation: I guess just spiritual
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? Like an hour ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was AMAZING. We met at the Grey Dog and had the best drip coffee ever and went back to his flat and talked about travel…and he ate me out endlessly. His dick……ahhhhhhh…his dick was so perfect.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He just asked if I was hungry and I said of course I was. We ended up just getting coffee though and talked A LOT. We talked about geography and film and comedy, which is surprisingly a huge turn on.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He came 3 times. Me, 5.
I squirted for the first time…so yeah, that happened. He asked me to sit on his face and I gladly did. He fingered me like never before. I had never been so happy to give head before and we devoured each other. Also…hottest missionary I’ve had yet.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Awesome, hes only in town for a short while and were going to a ucb show next weekend. Its nice to show someone else around the city for once
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device), I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Knowing that I made someone else happy/ satisfied
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Its over and we both had plans so I couldnt spend the night
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Its made me appriciate me love for connection and the experience of people.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? There are soooo many amazing people out there just be safe and consent and enjoy yourself! 😉
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The stigma but you can’t trust experience someone and allow them to be free and there’s no way you either have sex and dump them at the waistside or marry them that’s just not true. I love people I think that it’s okay find someone that interests you and connect with him on an intimate level and just be cool stop with all the wierd rules and shit… It kills the mood
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Keep it up guys. Love this stuff youre doing
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