What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Mocel/actress
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Prefer women sexually, exclusively lez romantically
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50 or so
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? several
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How long ago did this hookup happen? two weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Early 30s. Dark haired. Great smile, big brown eyes. Slim. She’s a real estate agent who was showing me a condo I was interested in, in West LA. My interaction with her before she showed it to me was just on the phone. I liked her voice.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was attracted to her right away. She pinged. Honestly, I’m hot and I’m used to chicks looking me over but she kept looking at my legs. She didn’t say she had seen me on anything, thank God, and when I told her what I do, she didn’t have any comment. I was a wearing a skirt and white blouse and I had let my hair (I’m a ginger) down. I was as usually shameless and didn’t have a bra on so I think I got her attention which obviously was what I was hoping for even though I had no idea before I met her if she was lez, bi, or straight. I knew she was cute from their website. We chitchatted, had coffee afterward, seemed in sync, and then, later ion the day, I texted her and asked her if she wanted to have coffee again later in the week “just for fun” and she said yes. We had coffee again, I came on to her, I think she liked my moves, and I asked her if she wanted to have dinner sometimes. That’s when she said she was married….which I hated hearing but she said if we were discreet she would. So I picked her up at work, we went out and had dinner.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I had a buzz and so did she after dinner and in the car I made a pass at her. I was super turned on. We made out, she had soft perfect lips and was a good kisser. She wasn’t a sub…her hand were all over me. She said let’s go somewhere so we went to my apartment and had sex. I mean, I have gotten a little jaded given how many chicks I have fucked in recent years but she was ultra into it and I responded, clothes practically getting ripped off. She had beautiful boobs and long nipples which, like every other girl I know, turns me on. I was gushing long before she went down on me and gave me as good oral as I have ever gotten. I usually orgasm fast and I did, but it built slowly in some mini ones before I came hard several times. I was so exhausted I lay there for awhile before I returned the favor. I’m super good at licking pussy and she appreciated it a lot — very vocal — and when she orgasmed she tightened her legs around my head and that was hot. We lay in bed, and after awhile, before she left, fucked again but that was more routine, we both came but the first go was what was heavenly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked, agreed to see each other, which we did several times at my place and once at hers. For both of us, this was sex and fun, nothing more. She’s got a husband and I have learned that bisexuals result in heartache if you get too emotionally involved with them. We will probably fuck again at some point.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No, I rarely talk about my sex life.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She’s very good looking, very sexy, and the sex with her was top of the charts
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I love it when a girl knows how to do me. I tend to be very dom so a versatile experience where I can let myself go is great.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I have thought my sex addiction was self-destructive and gets in the way of love and happiness but I think I’m beginning to accept myself for what I am.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool.
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