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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Ireland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Police
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at allone-night stand
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Gay when Horny lol
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Similar age to me. 5ft 9ins slim nice body and attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? His place through Grindr when my wife was away. We both instigated it swapped pics and were both horny.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Lots of kissing. I love kissing men. After that, I kissed and licked his body and sucked his cock while fingering his ass. Then we swapped and he rimmed me first then sucked me hard. After that, we 69’ed because we both wanted to suck cock. We didn’t plan sex but when I offered to fuck him he readily agreed. We used lube and condoms and I topped him doggy style. We both talked dirty and it was great dirty horny gay sex. He told me he wanted my cum on his chest so I pulled out took the condom off and came on him. Then we made out while I jetted him off and sucked him till he came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After I showered kissed him and left. I regretted cheating on my wife but could never tell her I’m into men. No expectations of meeting again but met twice since through Grindr.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Cheating on wife but at same time I’m not sorry I did it

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sucking cock kissing a man and good anal sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Again cheating

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I know I really enjoy all aspects of gay sex but never want emotional relationship with a man

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Open relationship to be accepted less labels on sexuality

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love reading other experiences

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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