by El Gonzo
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? a little kink
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? over 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 9
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 35 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Both young ladies were high school seniors (both 18 too; I was 23) who worked with me in a small town (automated) radio station at different times of the day. Lilly was a cute brunette who loved to tease by licking her lips ( she had a very long tongue). Melissa was a cute thin redhead who was quiet but had a little fire in her too.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Since I was at the station throughout the day at various hours, it was opportune to catch each one when they were working alone. Since there was no live DJ involved (it was all on reel to reel tape), we could certainly entertain some ideas.
I had come in one Friday morning to find that Lilly had not filled out some program logs, and needed her to sign off on them. I called her, and she says she could be there in 10 minutes, since she didn’t have class til later in the day. She comes bopping in, smiling that smile, and I see it, knowing something could happen right then. I have her sign off on the logs, and she asks if there’s anything else she could do for me. All it took was a quick wink, and I led her to a back office where we locked lips first.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Lilly was breathing hard as I was groping her perky tits. I lead one of her hands to my crotch, and she starts rubbing my cock. “I want to suck it”, she says. I undo my pants, and those young lips start slurping on my dick. The girl knew what she was doing. About 10 minutes of this, and I wanted some pussy. I undid her jeans, pulled them down and bent her over a desk, where I fucked Lilly good, cumming on her sweet ass. She gave me a long tongue filled kiss when she left, and promised more of the same later.
That later came in the form of Melissa, who worked evenings for us. I had attended a boring meeting that night and went to the station to check on messages. I’m sitting in my small office when Melissa comes in, says hello and notices I was a bit tense. She offers to rub my neck, and I start getting hard when her smooth hands start reaching down my chest. I turn to her, and ask her upfront if she’d like to fuck. It caught her by surprise, but she said okay. Melissa didn’t give any head. She just wanted to fuck. I pulled my pants down, while she took hers off. She jerked me off for about 5 minutes while I was trying to convince her to suck my dick. She refused to, but slid on my dick as I sat on my chair. We fucked to the rhythm of the office chair for about 20 minutes before I had to leave. Two distinct and fun fucks in one day!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Both young ladies worked with me for a while after they graduated, and we occasionally got a chance for a hot fuck here and there. Not sure if they ever knew about each other. I felt great about it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Enjoyed two very yummy young women in day. What’s not to like!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. I get it when I can.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? n/a
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its a good forum.
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