by Danny

Gender: Male
Age: 31
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Texas
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Tech support
Relationship status: Engaged
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10 (8 intercourse, 2 oral only)
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6 so far

Ellie Takes Me To a BSDM Meetup

How long ago did this hookup happen? May 2012

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Friends-with-benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? If you’ve read my previous story, “Friends in Need,” you already know about Ellie. She is 24, white with long straight blond hair, very plump, and very cute. We’ve been friends for over two and a half years and had started hooking up about a month prior to this story. We lived in different cities about two hours apart, so arranging hookups wasn’t easy.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Ellie had started getting into BDSM and was going to the local meetups in her city. She was very excited to be making new friends, and started telling me about the events she was going to. It sounded very interesting, and hearing the stories about what she was letting people do to her there really turned me on. She offered to take me to one of their local meetups, so I planned a trip. I had the day after the meetup off from work, so I booked a hotel room so we could spend the night together.

On the day of the meetup, I drove down after work and checked in to the hotel. Ellie was waiting for me, and we had about 20 minutes before the meetup started. We decided that was enough time for a rousing quickie.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went to the hotel room, and I immediately pinned her against the wall and kissed her hard. I ran my fingers through her hair and tightened them, grabbing near the scalp and eased her down to her knees. She unfastened my pants and pulled out my cock to give me a blowjob. She let me direct the bobbing movement of her head while she sucked until I was ready to fuck her.

She got up and took off her pants and panties. I put on a condom and pushed her down onto the bed. She was already dripping wet, so I plunged my penis straight into her pussy. She cried out “OH!” in a way that said she was caught off-guard by the forcefulness of the penetration, but not in a bad way. She began to cum much more quickly than I expected, and soon I reached my climax as well.

It was time to go to the meetup, so we didn’t take any time to cuddle or reflect. We simply got cleaned up, put our pants back on, and left for the meetup.

At the meetup, Ellie introduced me to several of her new friends. It was a little overwhelming since I’m such an introvert, but I eventually joined in on several conversations. She introduced me to Marie (at least that’s what I’m calling her here), and we started hitting it off well Marie and I had several common interests, and talking with her felt very natural. By the end of the evening, Marie and I exchanged phone numbers. Ellie got us invited to a BDSM party later that week too.

Ellie and I went back to the hotel and showered. I honestly don’t remember how sexual we got in the shower though. Shower sex isn’t really her thing, and it usually ended up being more trouble than it was worth the times I’ve had it. We dried off and climbed in bed to fuck some more. I don’t remember the details, but we fucked missionary and doggy style until we were both spent and ready for sleep.

We cuddled, and she asked me about what I thought of her new friends. She was especially interested in what I thought about Marie. I told her I was definitely planning on giving Marie a call soon, and that seemed to make her happy. Soon after that, we drifted off to sleep.

I woke up the next morning with her mouth on my cock. Once I was awake enough, she smiled at me, tossed me a condom, and got down into doggy style position. I fucked her like that until I came, and then told her to roll over on her back so I could eat out her pussy. She came twice from the tonguing I gave her now red cunt. She kissed me before I could clean off my face and then got dressed quickly and left for work.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both had several orgasms.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I wore a condom each time I penetrated her.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? We were enjoying being friends-with-benefits, and she wanted me to meet the friends she was making in the BDSM lifestyle. She also really wanted me to meet Marie.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Neither drugs nor alcohol were involved.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I ended up texting Marie, and we went on a date that evening. I told her Ellie and I were currently friends-with-benefits, and it didn’t bother her in the least. She had a boyfriend at the time, but they weren’t exclusive. In fact, Marie’s boyfriend was actively encouraging her to go on dates.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Several of my newer friends, but I’ve never given a detailed account until now.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual and we both wanted it.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was that Ellie introduced me to Marie, whom I ended up dating. the worst was the hotel room. It was right off the highway and the traffic noise made it hard to sleep.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Marie and I are now engaged to be married, and we have Ellie to thank for introducing us. If I had not been fucking Ellie at the time, Marie and I may never have met.

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