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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Every Sunday

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Chinese girl. Long legs. Long black hair. Sexy as hell. She worked in the same company as me and the foreigners used to flirt with her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I asked her to help me with some things because of the language barrier. We became friends and she was always eager to help…with loads of stuff. Before the hookup, she helped me find a new apartment and I gave her a key in case I ever lost mine. Soon after, we were meeting more regularly on the weekend for coffee and sometimes she would just call up to the apartment without telling me she was coming. She always knocked, though. One weekend, I had had a heavy night drinking and was comatose the next day. She was outside knocking for a while but I never heard. She let herself in and came into the bedroom to see if I was alive/still there (She knew I was out drinking the night before because I had tried calling her very late). She wakes me up and I see her in these tight shorts and high heels with a skimpy top on. She was making an excuse for coming in without being let in but I said it was OK. Then she just kind of stood there standing over the bed.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was getting hard under the blanket, just looking at her. So, after a minute silence, I just pulled at her top a little and she sat on the bed. I then asked if she wanted to lie down for a bit and, even though she seemed reluctant she did. I then moved on her, massaging her tits and kissed her passionately while pulling her into the bed under me. She could feel my hardness and reached down to stroke it. After that, it was pretty animalistic. I pulled off her top, her shorts and pulled down her panties. She was wet and ready. I licked her pussy for a short time and then entered her missionary as she gasped at the size. I pounded her in every position before coming all over her back and ass. It was heaven and the best way to wake up! When we finished she lay there for a while, my cum dripping off her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We took a shower together and went out for coffee not really speaking about it too much. It became a regular thing after, almost every weekend. I would usually be drinking on a Saturday night and she would come on Sunday, wearing sexy clothes. I learned after that she was fucking 3 guys (including me) at the same time. Sometimes, she would get fucked by one guy, come over to wake me up for more and then meet another guy to get fucked when he was in town. I got rid of her after that (found out on her phone messages), but I wished I had fucked her even harder and treated her like a complete slut. She was basically coming over to my place to get fucked.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told some mates and they were jealous

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Waking up and fucking a hot Chinese girl all afternoon, coming anywhere I wanted

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was fucking other guys at the same time

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? no

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People need to keep a handle on their emotions

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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