by ET

Gender: Male
Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: Chinese
Current location: Singapore
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Executive
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 1
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

First Gangbang

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night stand/gangbang

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A girl whom the participants met in person only on the night of the gangbang. She was petite with a cute face.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had a post on CL (Craigslist) looking for a casual encounter and was contacted by a guy who invited me to join a gangbang that was taking place a few days from then.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It took place in a hotel in the central business district in the evening. I arrived at the hotel lobby at the designated time and found the other guys who were waiting there. Some had bailed out at the last minute and we ended up with a total of 5 guys including me. After some drinks at the bar, the organizer took us up to the room where the girl was waiting for us. She warmly greeted each of us with a kiss and a hug and then got onto the bed. The action began right away with three guys on her, caressing her body and eating her out. Another guy and I were a little shy at first as it was both our first time participating in a gangbang, so we sat by the side to watch for a bit before we joined in.

The girl looked shy and innocent, but in bed she was a nymphomaniac on steroids.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not have an orgasm because I wasn’t able to get an erection. I don’t know if it was because of my nerves from attending my first gangbang or if my body was just tired and not in the mood.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I brought condoms for everyone to use.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Taking part in a gangbang was something that I’ve always wanted to do. It’s rare for single men to be invited to one here, so when the chance came I took it and signed up.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Some beer was passed around during the event.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had mixed emotions. On one hand, I felt excited at finally being able to fulfill one of my sexual fantasies. On the other, I felt embarrassed that I couldn’t get hard enough to join in.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I had a chat with the other guys afterwards. They were quite sympathetic about me not being able to get it up and told me not to worry about it as it happens to every guy at some point, and that I did good for my first gangbang.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was consensual for everyone.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. It was a rare and exciting event that many dream about and I’m grateful for being given the chance to experience it, even if it didn’t work out as well as I hoped.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best was being able to see a gangbang right in front of my eyes instead of a computer screen. The atmosphere was totally different and a lot more intense.

The worst was not being able to perform and having cheated myself out of some of the fun.

Although I had fun, it did get me thinking about whether I’m more of a solo than a group kind of guy. Guess there’s only one way to find out.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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