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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Myrtle Beach, SC
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Less than 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

My First and Only Threesome, So Far

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Night

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? There were two women. They were both BBW. One was prettier than the other. At least one was supposed to be 20 years old. I suspect she was older. The other was probably close to 30. I didn’t know them at all and was very nervous about meeting them. I was afraid they might be be in law enforcement

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began with an online classified ad for a no strings attached hookup. I can’t remember if they contacted me or I contacted them because I have placed some ads and so have they. I know there was only going to be one woman involved initially. I had been communicating with the first one via text discussing options of who was hosting and the cost for her time. I was nervous about going to her place and she was nervous about coming to mine. I saw an ad in the same classifieds that the headline read “two for one special.” The ad was flagged for removal and I couldn’t read the contents.The person was in the same small town as the one I had been in communication with and I knew she had a “friend.” I asked her if that was her ad via text and she confirmed it was. I asked if I could pay a little extra to have them come to me and she agreed because she felt safer with her friend.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? One woman was on her monthly so vaginal with her was off limits. The other, cuter one, was good to go. Both performed oral on me. Taking turns at times and simultaneously. I asked that the one not on her cycle to perform oral on the other and they both happily complied. The cuter one was easily stimulated and it was obvious she was having a good time. I offered the use of my massager and they used it with satisfaction. Then, with a condom, I had vaginal with the cute one.  They were both good to me, but the bigger one was a little bossy. I was told the cute one “didn’t suck dick”, but she corrected that and was pretty good at it. I was extremely happy I was checking off multiple bucket list items with one experience.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? They had to leave but we had a friendly good bye. I was not able to reach climax and had difficulty maintaining an erection. This was the first time. It wasn’t because I wasn’t having a good time. I think I was overwhelmed with all the positives that I couldn’t focus on my satisfaction. I get so much pleasure bringing my partner to orgasm that I failed to have one. The bigger one was so determined that I climax that she offered to come back and finish the job at a time that wouldn’t be rushed. She said with confidence “I know I suck good dick.” and she was determined that I orgasm. I believe them that they would come back at no extra charge.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Boredom

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t talked to anybody. I’m afraid of people being judgmental and not approving of what I did. That’s why I’m sharing my story here.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was able to check off multiple bucket list Items. Girl on girl action in my presence. One woman performing oral and manual on the woman performing oral on me. A threesome. The girls were life partners, so it made it more exciting that one watched as I had vaginal sex with her partner. The cuter one had multiple orgasms. She even came enough to wet my bed a little.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I was not able to perform up to my usual standards.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think casual sex is stimulating. I just hope my failure to perform up to standard doesn’t become the norm. But there’s a pill for that.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The overall experience was very satisfying even though I didn’t climax. It was full of new experiences for me.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is something that should be left up the consenting adults. I also believe others should have no say so about the legality of exchanging money for time spent together. I don’t approve of managers forcing anybody to perform sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It seems like it serves a decent purpose

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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