by Nial Cash
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Musician
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 Years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was quite tall and slim, brown curly hair and brown eyes.
Pretty but not smoking hot.
We first met at school in a class we were in together, we had not hooked up before this night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were out at local night spot in the town we lived in, as it was someone’s birthday, drinking and dancing but nothing unusual. We were dancing together and things got quite tactile but nothing too hot and heavy. On the way home we started kissing and then we headed back to my place (although I still lived with my parents at the time!).
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? There wasn’t really any foreplay as we were both drunk and horny, just just stripped and got straight to fucking. I put on a condom and we just went at it, she was very vocal and screamed the place down when I was fucking her doggy style; her pussy was nice and tight so I fucked her hard from behind until I came in the condom.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We didn’t talk about what happened again, things just went back to normal & it wasn’t awkward. I later found out that we were quite loud & it woke up my parents and sister!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a couple of my friends, they thought it was great!
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It felt great – it’s always nice to fuck a tight, wet pussy.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Finding out I woke up my family!
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No problems with casual sex at all.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love this website!
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