Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Administrative Assistant
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Friends With Benefits
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? friends with benefits
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We were coworkers and it was a professional relationship between us. He was my supervisor.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? No planning just innocent flirting with no interest upon us than constant texting and sexting. We put it all as a dare. I dare you and ended up involved.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I made a reservation at a hotel for one night to relax and dared him to a sleepover with no strings attached just explore ourselves and no sex involved. He was wanting it we kissed and eventually had sex. It was great sex.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We talked about condoms but were too heated to even take them out
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? None. Just felt a great attraction
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We have been distant
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? no
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was great sex great chemistry
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? its complicated to try to have a double lifestyle
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