What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Chicago
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Very
Fucked Roughly by Best Friend
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s tall and blonde. We’ll call him Jamie. About 6’2″ with a long frame and a substantial package. I’ve known him since undergraduate. We were in the same biology and chemistry classes together and now attend graduate school in the same city. I’ve always thought he was very sexually attractive, but he never seemed interested in me and we were always dating other people.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We use to do drinking games together; At his place or my place we’d each take a shot and say some fantasy one of us had. I was raised in a conservative Asian household where sex was discouraged, so as a result I’ve built up quite the repretoire of sexual fantasies, oftentimes involving dominance. I’ve on occasion shared them with friends, including Jamie. However, after getting rather intoxicated (I only had two shots at that point) I mentioned that I was really horny these days (had just broken up with my boyfriend about 6 months prior) and had these sexual fantasies of submission. His response was something like “really, I never would have expected that someone like you would want that…” I replied that you should never judge a book by its cover. A few shots later, he then confessed to me that he had fantasized about taking me roughly from time to time. I realized at this point that there really wasn’t any turning…
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? At that point, he snuggled up close to me and put one arm around my shoulders while the other rapidly moved to my left thigh. I was wearing a black blouse, some white short shorts, and red panties. His mouth inched closer to my head and pulled it in my direction and then said, “Well, what do you think?” I smiled at him and nodded slowly several times in what took several seconds but felt like hours. I stared into his blue eyes and saw an intensity that I had never seen from him before.
He then grabbed my head and pulled in for a long kiss. And boy what a kiss it was! The next thing I know his tongue is exploring all over my mouth, feeling the inside of my lips and the going down my body. He then picked me up and lifted me and took me to his bedroom, where he threw me down on the bed. He then went to a bedside drawer next to me and brought out a series of BDSM objects I had not encountered before. By this point, I was beyond ready to have a rough fuck and didn’t mind being tied up at all. He then said in a really husky voice, “for the next 6 hours I own your body. Your body is my fucktoy to do what I want with.” I smiled at him coyly. He then proceeded to take out handcuffs and cuff my wrists to the bed poles. It was an extraordrinary feeling to be immobilized like that and I felt oddly empowered to just sit back and enjoy a rough fucking like this. After he had tied me up and blindfolded me, I felt him fingers all over my stomach and crotch as he prepared to rip my shorts and panties off (my top had already come off by this point). 30 seconds later I was stark naked on my best friends bed, hearing him unbuckle his jeans, rip open a condom, and prepare to enter me.
(Up to this point we were just platonic friends, so I didn’t know what his dick would feel like) And I couldn’t see its size, but he had told me before that it was above average. He rammed into me and boy I could immediately tell he wasn’t joking! It must have been about 9 inches. The feeling of fullness was what was most amazing about the next few minutes as he proceeded to hammer me again and again and eventually came deep inside of me. He then whispered in my ear. “I’ve wanted to do this for years.” I responded in kind.
We spent the next 4 hours fucking in different positions and I got to further explore my submissive side. I told him to spank me roughly and talk dirty to me (calling me a slut or fucktoy) when we did doggystyle and anal. He didn’t hold back. I came multiple times over the course of the sessions and he came at least twice, once inside of me.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I stayed for breakfast and he cooked me a really nice omelet. We talked about the previous night and how much we had enjoyed it. I said that I wanted to, if possible, continue this arrangement. On weekends he could call me whenever he wanted to use me in whatever way he wanted. Oddly enough, I find this kind of submissiveness strangely empowering. I get to just enjoy the sex and not feel guilty about these fantasies since he’s completely in control of my body.
Right as I was about to leave he grabbed my hips and said that he “wasn’t quite done with me yet.” He moved me against a wall and proceeded to pull down my pants and bang me one more time in the ass. It was brutal but delicious, with him grabbing onto my hips with both hands and going as deep as he possibly could. He finished inside of me in about 40 seconds and then pulled my pony tail, causing my back to arch back towards him, and whispered in my eye that I was one of the dirtiest girls he’d been with and he was looking forward to fucking me in the future.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Two girlfriends, each of whom was really surprised by my rough sex fantasies
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
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