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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Small town in Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Fucking The Friend of My Fuck Buddy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had a date with someone called “C”. See my previous story. She was DTF on the first date so we had sex. It didn’t lead to anything, but she was horny and wanted sex, so we were fuck buddies for a while. She actually introduced me to her friend “D” who was also looking for a relationship. D was tall, slim, with blond hair, working as a bookkeeper for a small company. D was actually attractive to me. We were getting along fine on the first two dates, no major sparks. After the second date, we just progressed to having sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After the second date ended, I drive her home. She invited me in. We started making out, and that led to us taking off our clothes and going to her bedroom to have sex.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Up to that point in my life, my sexual experience was rather conservative and limited. Her friend “C” was the first to get freaky by having bareback sex on the first date, which started with C asking me about sex positions,

So I asked D what positions she liked. She said all of them. She was not as forward as C about what she liked, but once I started fucking her, she started expressing her enjoyment vocally. She seemed to like a guy to be naturally agressive with her. The harder I fucked her, the louder she got, and she also started talking dirty, telling me to fuck her harder. It was a pretty good experience.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kissed and stroled each other for a while. Then I left. While there were no big romantic sparks on the first ow dates, we both liked the sex. Based on that, we continued to date and have sex. At that point, I stopped the fuck buddy arrangement with her friend C since I knew they talked.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I think she was talking to her friend C about this, so I stopped the FB relationship with C. Implicitly, C knew we were having sex.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was expanding my sexual experience after I started hooking up with “C” and now “D”.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex is a good thing to do early on in dating. In this case, we would have went our own ways if we didn’t have sex, since there was not much we had in common. But the sex was good for both of us, and we continued dating for a few months because of this. We did eventually split up, but it was amicable, and we both agreed that the sex was worth the time together.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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