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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 46
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England, London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Office work
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Wiccan / Pagan
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? submissive
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

GB at a swingers club

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3-4 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I went to a men’s swingers club (there were some couples, but mostly single men and club ‘staff’) with my Dom. The men were mostly between 20-25, some cute, others less so, a few with really big dicks, most average, a couple of small ones. I didn’t really look at them closely before the scene started as I felt shy, and also didn’t have my contact lenses (due to fake eyelashes and makeup I was wearing).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My partner/Dom and I decided to try out a new-to-us club with plenty of single men (most clubs we go to are for couples, which doesn’t work that great for us as I’m not interested in women). We got to the club, were shown around, and sat on a sofa drinking a glass of wine. My Dom raised my skirt and started caressing my thigh, I could feel the eyes of the room on us so I thought it was time to get on with it. I removed my top, remaining in a lacy basque, climbed up on all fours onto the sofa and started sucking my Dom’s dick.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I could feel guys flocking around us to see, and my Dom turned me around to face several hard cocks. I enjoyed sucking them in turn, or 2 at a time, whilst my skirt was lifted to my waist and I got fucked in the pussy. Some time later, as I became tired of the spit-roast position, we all moved to a nearby bed where I was on my back, with men climbing on top of me to fuck me, whist others fucked my mouth. Some came on my face, which was very exciting. Some came fucking my pussy – I couldn’t feel the sperm, as condoms were worn, but I could feel the hardness, spasms and softening inside me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We ended up chatting with a few guys after the scene, and went upstairs with 2-3 for a repeat, however it was closing time so only had some sucking and fingering. We kept in touch by text with a couple of guys with the biggest cocks in the hope of meeting again, however it never happened.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My Dom and I discussed it afterwards and in the days to follow. I also wrote about it on Fetlife. I told no friend or family IRL.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being wanted and used by many guys

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? One of the guys on top of me had bad breath – I turned my face away but he was breathing hard as he fucked me and it still bothered me, luckily not for too long!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Without my contact lenses my vision was blurry – it was almost as if I was wearing a light blindfold. Maybe this contributed to the sensuality and my enjoyment of the scene.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I find casual sex much more rewarding now that I am with my Dom and we see it as an occasional part of our sexual repertoire. Before him, I only had a couple of experiences with casual sex and on balance they were not as satisfying. Maybe it’s because they were 1-2-1s, and that makes me feel more responsible for the guy’s satisfaction rather than just enjoying myself…?

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great idea, adds to the normalisation of casual sex.

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