What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Waitress
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 38
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Two guys. Hot, tall. One was black, the other white. There was a third guy, too, who my friend hooked up with (I got him on a later date but that’s another story.) Didn’t know them at all before the meeting. Barely talked to them. I might have heard their names but I don’t remember them and pretty sure I had forgotten by the time we were fucking.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was at a frat party during the third week of school. I was a sophomore who had spent my first year working a little too hard and being a little too involved with my church group. Over summer I learned to chill out a bit and in September went with my friend to the party. It was cowboy themed though so that was cool. We mostly ended up hanging with a group of 3 guys who turned out, to your luck, be football players, and got progressively more drunk. I remember going to Mcdonalds for munchies (we did some weed and ecstasy) and weirding out all the people there by shouting a little too loudly and falling down. Eventually, the boys took us back to their place to ‘hang out’ but almost as soon as we were in my friend ended up going with one of the football players into a room, leaving me with the other two. Awkks. Fortunately, I’m good at dealing with these types of situations, and we decided to have a threesome. One of the guys didn’t seem too keen, saying they should just go one at a time and that ‘it was gay’. I convinced him to grow up and took them both to one of the rooms.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We ended up on the bed, me getting naked first. One of them kissed me while another went down under. Idk, I recall it taking a while to see my first dick, so I guess they were nervous around each other. I remember eventually having to take initiative in pushing down the black guys pants and putting him in my mouth. Good thing is, once this guys broke out of their shell, he wasn’t shy. He facefucked me hard, which I really enjoy, while his friend licked my clit and fingered my ass. I probably came once even before the white football player entered me.
They both were really good, and lasted some time. After a few minutes, they switched, and we tried different positions, but it was uncomfortable in that small room so we eventually ended up in the main room, fucking on the rug. It was basically me in the middle, getting facefucked by one player while the other fucked my vagina. The black guy even had some lube, and we were able to move on to anal. The switched twice more, and we tried some other positions too. I admit, I was hoping for double penetration, with one in my ass and another vaginal, but that didn’t happen despite me hinting that I would like it. I guess they weren’t ready to go over that barrier. Shame, but it was still a fucking amazing night. I swallowed one player, while the other lasted for a few minutes longer and came in my ass.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I fucked the black guy again in the morning, and saw him a few times throughout my uni days. The other guy got a girlfriend soon after that and became boring so we never did this again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Most of my friends. Some were impressed, some were jealous and said shit behind my back. Oh well.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First threesome. The guys were respectful, knew their boundaries, and focused on making me enjoy it.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No DP 🙁
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was generally very pro casual sex already, but this was a kick ass way to start my second year at uni. It opened me up to threesomes and made me more positive about the experience (after having had two awkward HS ones.)
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Ive been having casual sex since grade 10, and don’t see a problem with it. The stigma is annoying to say the least, because even I sometimes think about my number and am wary of saying it. I mean, I’m not especially high yet, but still sometimes i lie and say ’12 or 20′ rather than the near 40 im approaching now. I wouldnt have to if people just chilled out and realized that sex isn’t something to be afraid of.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool place. Enjoyed reading stories here.
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