What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Antonio
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Plumbing estimator
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? somewhat kinky
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 53
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
The Girl Across the Hall
How long ago did this hookup happen? 14 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She’s a very thin, extremely attractive 25 year old girl between boyfriends. She has waist length curly blond hair, green eyes, size dd breast that her ex boy friend bought for her, a coke habit and an eating disorder. I had seen her coming and going from her apartment across the breezeway / hall. I know she lives with her overweight older sister and spotted her sunbathing at the pool from my second floor balcony. I had never spoken to her except to say hi when she was either coming or going and I happened to be doing the same.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One Sunday night about 1AM she knocked on my door and complained that her smoke detector was going off so I told her I would contact maintenance but that they would probably not respond until morning. She left and about 10 minutes later was knocking again so I offered her my couch. No sooner had I said that, she came in and made a bee line for my bed. I was naked behind the door and I tried to tell her but she was halfway to the bedroom before I could get it out and only glanced back at me as she continued walking. I was stunned that she climbed in my bed and she was very quiet for a few minutes. I laid there beside her wondering if she was there to play or if she really wanted to sleep. I didn’t want to scare her off so I figured I would let her make the first move since she’s come this far. My head felt like it was going to explode with possibilities and anticipation of what this gorgeous girl was going to do next, I didn’t even know her name. Then I heard her whisper something so asked her to repeat it as I moved closer. She said it again but I still couldn’t make it out. A third time and she was saying, “Go down on me.” I thought I was going to blackout because my heart was beating so fast, this was something I could never have dreamed of happening on my best day.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I pull the sheet down to expose her unbelievable body and tell her how beautiful she is at which point she informs me that her pussy doesn’t smell. I’m thinking well that’s a plus but I don’t think that would have stopped me. I take her panties off and I still can’t believe this is happening. I go down on her for hours and every time she would get close to an orgasm she would raise my head a little or put her hand in the way. I think she wanted me to keep her right on the edge for as long as possible and I didn’t have a problem with that. I asked her about sex but she didn’t want vaginal sex which was disappointing but she said she loves anal sex. I stupidly declined because at the time I was not at all interested in anal sex, damn I wish I had a do over on that one. She promised me that in the morning we would have regular sex which I was delighted to hear. We slept a few hours and both called in sick to spend the day together. I got to know her and was surprised to learn that she’s Spanish, not Mexican, which accounted for her green eyes and blond hair. What a fucking babe. She kept me on as a fuck-buddy for about a year even after her and her sister move away, thankfully not far away.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt like the luckiest man on the planet. I couldn’t believe a 25 year old girl who could have easily been a Victoria’s Secret model would have even the slightest interest in hooking up with a 42 year old man. In my defense I’ve aways looked ten years younger which I attribute to diet, exercise, not smoking and staying the hell out of the sun as much as possible. I had no expectations about this relationship but was very eager to answer her call whenever it came and was extremely grateful no matter what time of night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Friends but they didn’t know her and were never going to meet her. They were mildly amused and surprised by how bold and daring she was.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It turned into a fuck-buddy relationship with a smoking hot girl.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I never told her I was disappointed that she didn’t call more often. I just asked her to call me anytime day or night. I should have been clear that I wanted to see her more often.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I never knew girls could be as horny as her. I always knew guys were horny and I’m one of the most.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was a lot of fun being her fuck buddy, I’m kind of sad it ended.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I just wish everyone would stay safe and wear condoms if you don’t know your partner’s sex history.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I know nothing of the “Casual Sex Project” this is the first time I’ve been on this site.
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