Location: Tempe, AZ
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Religious affiliation: N/A
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 months ago
How would you best classify this hookup? one-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I wanted to experiment with girls so I joined Tinder and found a girl. She was a complete stranger and we only messaged briefly before I went over to her house to hookup. She was what I would consider “out of my league”. Long brown hair, nails done, waxed, thin with slight curves in all the right places.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After messaging on Tinder for about an hour, she was begging for me to come over. I never hooked up with a girl before so I was weary but she was persistent. She gave me her address and I drove over to her place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We took no time to talk or get to know each other. We laid on her bed and immediately began to make out. Touching, feeling, and dry humping quickly turned into hot, passionate sex. I wanted to taste her; she sat on my face and giving oral was a big turn on for me. She returned the favor and I had never received head this good from any guy I had been with. After we satisfied each other, we laid in bed for 5 minutes before I made up an excuse to leave.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Unfortunately, we were not proactive in preventing STIs. Both of us were in monogamous relationships so I think we both assumed the other one was clean.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted to fulfill my fantasy of having sex with another woman.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I was nervous so I smoked a bit of weed before I headed over to her house.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup I felt guilt, pride, and satisfaction. I felt guilty because I had made the conscious decision to cheat on my boyfriend. I was proud and satisfied because I finally acted upon my sexual desires that I had been hiding ever since I was young. I didn’t mind that I probably would never talk to her again. I rarely get attached to one-night stands.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? After the hookup I told my close friends who knew I was bisexual. I had a few friends with judgements since I cheated but most friends were intrigued by my experience and happy for me.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was absolutely consensual from both parties.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do not regret this hookup. It opened up my mind and helped me realize what I wanted in a sexual partner and in relationships. I came out as bisexual and was not afraid to admit it.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best part of this hookup was how comfortable it made me with my sexuality. It helped me become more honest with my sexual partner I had after her whom has now become my loving boyfriend. He is aware of my desire for women and how I’ve had a cheating past. Although these confessions may cause trust issues in many relationships, he has put his trust in me and I have made the commitment to be loyal to him.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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