What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Finance
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Goal of sex before her friend’s wedding
How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Soraya at a speed dating event for professionals. She is Indian, 5’4″, very fit and stylish. The first thing I noticed about her was her fashionable dress that showed off her shoulders and well-toned arms. The dress came down to her thigh, enough to show that she also had well-toned legs. Very sexy. I am 5’10, with a slim, well-toned build, but average looking. I make it up by dressing well. I saw her face light up when she saw me and she complimented me on my sense of style. What a great start!
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had a mutual match at the speed date, which led to the first date. We had dinner at a waterfront restaurant. Again, she was dressed in a form fitting short skirted dress and low heels. I got a hard-on just looking at her. I found out she was watching her weight and working out religiously in preparation for the wedding of a close friend. She wanted to look her best. I told her how great she looked already and she returned the compliments about me too. I couldn’t believe my luck. I was saying to myself that I want us to be fucking some time before her friend’s wedding. We went for a walk along the waterfront after dinner. I put my arm around her to keep her warm. The dated ended with a light kiss on her lips. We had a second date the following weekend spending a little time at an art gallery followed by window shopping. Again, some hand-holding and ending the date with a little soulful kiss. The sexual tension was building well. I suggested picking her up at work to have dinner midweek. I could tell she dressed up a little extra on a Wednesday night, in blouse, pencil skirt and pumps. We had a lively discussion over dinner. I didn’t agree with her politics and many of her opinions turned me off a bit. But looking at her sexy body forced me to keep up the chemistry, which I did successfully. I suggested we go for a workout together next weekend. She loved that idea. We met at her local gym Saturday morning. She was dressed in leggings and a revealing tank top that left little to the imagination. I could barely keep a hard-on from happening. There was plenty of touching as we spotted each other on various weights. Afterwards, she suggested we go back to her condo, as she needed a shower.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we entered her condo, we started kissing, gently at first, then more passionately. We took of our clothes and took a shower together. We took turns lathering each other up. She was fondling my now erect cock and I was fondling her pussy. After drying each other off, we went to her bed. We started with me giving her oral, then fingering her pussy, then she started sucking my cock. This didn’t last long before proceeding to penetrative sex. I fucked her from behind, then she rode me, and then I banged her until I came.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Mission accomplished! I felt pretty good about it. We went out for lunch afterwards. She wanted me to spend the rest of Saturday with her, but I told her I had another engagement later that night. I didn’t want to spend the rest of the day with her lest there is any more emotional build up. I certainly want to fuck again before she attends her best friend’s wedding two weekends from now. I’m figuring out how to set that up now, with her schedule becoming busy. Mid-week sex would be good and I’ll aim for that next.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Another guy that went to the speed dating event with me.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I was able to fuck a sexy woman.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I don’t see eye-to-eye with her political and social views, and sucking it up to maintain the chemistry to get sex.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Great boost to my morale.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? First time doing interracial.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Compared to sex in LTR’s, casual sex is more enjoyable: it is the challenge of dating and finding new women to have casual sex with that makes the emotions more exciting.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I used to read stuff like this in Penthouse Forum. I wonder how many stories are true and how many are fantasies.
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