What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 37
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? San Francisco
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accounting
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Active
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was staying in a fancy hotel in San Francisco for a few days to hang out with some friends and go out at night. The next morning I felt relaxed after having a fun night and was looking on Craigslist while alone in my hotel. A lady had just posted an ad saying she was in the neighborhood shopping and wanted to hookup with someone for oral only. She was Asian and a little older than me. I emailed her immediately and told her my situation and sent some pics. Some time went by and hadn’t heard from her so I went downstairs and ate. When I got back to my room I had gotten a response from her, so I sent her my room number and waited in anticipation. I got very horny thinking about the hookup and stripped down to my underwear and masturbated while I waited. She emailed again and said she would be there in five minutes so I continued waiting and masturbating eagerly. Her picture was that of a cute Asian woman, and I love Asian women and wanted more experience with them so I was happy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She knocked on my door and I answered with a smile. I had thrown my pants back on. I wanted to project to her that I am indeed harmless, as I am. I’m a very gentle person. She was very good looking woman with a nice body, older than me but looked great. She was small, five feet tall, so a foot shorter than I am, and thin. We sat on the bed and so I assumed she was into it as she could have easily left or made herself less available if that was her vibe. I asked if we should take our clothes off and she said yes! So we stripped down and I laid back on the bed, I asked her if she wanted to 69 and so she climbed on top of me.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Her vagina was very nice, it was unshaven and actually quite large compared to her petite body, so I was very happy to have it in my face. I licked her pussy while she gave me head for what seemed like hours. It could have only been 45 minutes though. I sucked and licked on her pussy, enjoying the juices. She gave me head in this way where she would push down hard but my dick would only go about an inch into her mouth, every time she did this I almost came and told her, then she would slow down and just gently lick me for a few minutes. I got her to move her butt down to my mouth sometimes and I spread her cheeks and pushed my tongue into her butt. She got turned on by that. I liked it too because it felt dirty which turns me on. After many cycles of her almost making me cum she got off of me and said she had to go and gave me head and a handjob until I squirted a huge amount of cum all over my chest. Then she got dressed, we both said thank you very much, and she left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I think that she wanted the experience more than an orgasm. I also wonder if I had laid her down and given her proper head and used some fingers if she would have came. Ive learned not to fixate on the female orgasm. I always want to be a generous and good lover as well. This is a question mark in my mind as to whether I could have made the experience better for her, although I do believe that she enjoyed it a d got what she wanted which was a fun and safe sexual experience with someone she was attracted to who treated her kindly.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a female friend about it and she seemed jealous.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Going from being alone and horny in a hotel room to having someone come over for mutual pleasure without any false contexts.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I didnt realize a small woman could have a large vagina, it was very erotic for me to see that.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The act of casual sex throws away the normal societal interactions and you go immediately to burying your face in the other persons crotch. It is liberating, makes you feel more close to humanity as a whole, and makes life so much more enjoyable. I hope that people respect it for what it is and always treat their partners well.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think its good to hear about what is happening in leoples real lives in an unbiased atmosphere.
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