What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Happy New Year Indeed
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9yrs
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was about 5’7″, long brunette hair, great tits, decent ass, legs for days and stunning greenish blue eyes, she was 2yrs older. I knew her pretty well, i couldn’t really say how we met, she just showed up one day and we clicked, she was kind of like one of the guys and my wing woman at clubs, despite my inability to close, there was never anything sexual between us, even though lots of people thought there was. I always found her attractive but she is actually one of the few female friends i’ve had where i didn’t actively pursue her.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was shaping up to be a lousy new years, i was working late and my party plans had fell through at the last minute. I got off work and gave her a call already knowing she was staying in, her BF had dumped her a week prior to Christmas, she confirmed her lack of plans and i told her i was bringing pizza. When i got there i could see she was starting early with a bottle of wine and tub of ice cream, wearing a pair of short 80s looking gym shorts and a t-shirt. We ate, drank and watched a movie, we were both a little drunk when the movie ended at about 1130pm, we put on the times square NYE coverage and talked. About 5mins before midnight, she says out of no where “Friends can kiss at New Years, Right?” , I shrugged my shoulders and said sure, then she said we should kiss at midnight, i agreed and we waited. As the TV zoomed in on that NYE ball drop it felt like the longest most awkward 10 seconds of our lives, sitting side by side on the couch we moved in looking at each other as if we were waiting for the other to call it off but neither of us did, the clock struck midnight and we kissed quickly then pulled back, but only briefly, we attacked each other and just started going at it, she straddled me and we went at it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We were making out pretty heavy, going on 10-15 min, by this point i was rock hard and she was dry humping me pretty good, i pulled her shirt and bra off, then she undid my pants and pulled me out, we started kissing again, then she caught me off guard, as she was dry humping me she slipped her shorts to the side and with a little push i was in. I’ve never been so happy to be drunk during sex, i had never fucked a woman without a condom on and i’m sure i would have blown my load almost immediately otherwise. She rode me slowly for a bit until the shorts started to chaff my dick, we changed it up got completely naked and i did her doggy for a bit but i wasn’t going to last so we went back to her on top, even then i only lasted maybe 5min, i came very hard and it felt amazing but i panicked a little when i remembered i wasn’t wearing a condom, she laugh a little and assured me it was ok and she was on the pill, we sat and talked for a bit, joked about how our friendly new years kissed turned into friendly new years sex. After a while she got up and said she was going to bed, i guess i was still coming down from banging her cause i just sat there like an idiot and watched her ass sway as she walked to her room, from her door way she looked back and asked ” Well? you gunna stay there all night or are we gunna fuck again?” she didn’t have to ask twice as i eagerly joined her, we fucked a couple more times , she finally had an orgasm then we passed out.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning wasn’t as awkward as i would have expected, we were both pretty chill about it, and went out for breakfast. It was never said but i knew it was just sex and i was her rebound guy, which i was fine with. She moved a couple years later but we still talk and see each other occasionally.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone but i think she did
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? First time having sex without a condom, first time actually cumming in a woman, first time having casual sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I came pretty fast, but it wasn’t all that bad cause we did it a few more times and after the first orgasm i was good for a while.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? before i had only been with two women while in a relationship, this hookup showed me sex doesnt have to mean feelings and despite what i was told it didnt have to ruin a friendship. I kind of suck at relationships so casual sex works for me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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