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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? PA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Nonprofit
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Curiously Horny
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Hello, we fucking or what?

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 Years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on some social networking site. Totally attracted to his pics, we went right from instant messaging, to phone, and decided to meet up, all within the week of talking on the phone. We meet up at a local coffee shop.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We locked eyes as soon as we meet. The sexual attraction was fierce, he told me to jump in his car and I asked him, “We fucking or what?” He drove to a secluded area of this park. We got out & walked across this small bridge and started making out. I had worn a dress on purpose & was freshly shaven all over.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we made out, our tongues danced to each other’s rhythms. He reached around and grabbed my ass, and switched to my pussy. He slid his fingers along my clit and I moaned. He lifted me onto this rock and began to eat my pussy. I must have cum like 3 times, before he let me down. And when he did, I quickly reached for his dick and began to unzip his jeans. I pulled out to my excitement, his full erected 8 inch hard & thick dick. I dropped down and gave him oral dick sucking pleasure. I have this oral fixation, so the more my lips are stimulated, the longer I can go, and the wetter I get. I went deep throat on him, balls deep. I was so turned on, as he was. He gripped me up, had been getting his condom ready, strapped on and the sex was amazing. He reached over and rubbed my clit as he vigorously fucked my pussy. I pulled my leg up, just enough to have the best access to my wet dripping pussy. We must have fucked about 30 mins. I’d come like 6 times, to his one. We kissed & just leaned on each other, before either one of us could walk back to the car.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was extremely satisfied & he was the one calling the next several days. We arranged a weekly season. He even let his sexy ass brother contact me…”brotherly love.” 😘

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My BFF…she loved it and encouraged me to fuck the brother.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? That the expectations were clear, and the sex was amazing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That jealousy of the one brother didn’t allow for the threesome DP to happen. 😭😭😭

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Absolutely. I felt empowered to take control of my sexuality. Women have way more power than they realize. I began saying who and where and when.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Always say what you want and what you don’t.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think sex is a God-send. Patriarchal society fucks up things and gives women misconceptions of sex and sex-roles. If you want it, go and get it. Men have been getting laid far way longer than women. We need to catch up!

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!

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