What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 18
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? California, CA
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Hot sex with best friend
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is my best friend, tall and thin with a pouf of light brown hair. We were always compatible to the max but because of our different relationships with our other close friends, we stayed that way for a long time. Met in elementary school. I was beginning to get closer to him as friends but we didn’t see the hookup coming at all.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had snuck out and walked to his house around the corner to watch a movie on his projector. We were lying there and he started stroking my arm and then it slowly built up until we looked at each other and actually said, “Holy shit are we actually gonna do this?” which then led to him kissing me and it escalated very quickly from that point.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We had pretty straightforward sex no kinky stuff but it was very intense and hot. Oral and vaginal, his dick was so long it hurt me to an extent. He controlled what was happening so it was really fun to be flung around and penetrated so vigorously for so long. He held my legs up on his shoulder and did it that way. He was attentive and focused and there was a lot of sweat and noise–mostly mine. He was a good fuck and after we washed off we ended up doing it again this time from the back and that hurt like hell but still was good. He came on my stomach and then on my back.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we were just like “fuck” and kinda laughed about it. He drove me home completely nude at 2 AM and it was a very funny surreal experience. We talked about it very casually and all of our friends knew soon after. It was kept secret though because my former best friend was his girlfriend on and off for 3 years, shes a bit psycho so we were worried she would physically harm me. We are still very good friends, we can still talk about it and not feel weird.. we’re just even closer than we were before.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? talked to most of my friends, they were awe-struck and thought it was really funny
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? it was fun and it was a funny situation, we became closer friends and could have a good laugh about it. it was very hot too
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? it made my other friend think that because i did it it was okay to have sex with him too, so she hooked up with him a week later. but i also was hooking up with another of my best friends at the same time so I cant complain.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? yes, it was my first casual encounter after i had a 2 month fling with another guy who hurt me
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it is a good outlet for people, it shouldnt be shamed but helped to be safer and more acceptable.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? awesome!
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