by Craving for Semen
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 42
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? tutor
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5 women, countless men
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5
I am the old man now!
How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M. is a young asian woman, 23 years old. She is slim, long black hair, glasses, firm body. I have met her via friends at parties. We had chatted before and I definitely had the hots for her. Of course, I did not act on it because I am married and much older than her. I am also pretty sure that M. knew that I had a partner.
She had smiled at me a lot and hugged me good-bye once, our hands had accidentally touched. In a different situation, I might have considered those to be signs.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a party of friends. It is quite usual at these parties, that people of all ages hang out together. We are a bunch of lefties. Usually, my partner is with me on these occasions. This time however, she had to work.
I was pretty happy to see M. again and approached her, we chatted. Again, smiles and our hands accidentally touched at least once.
Much later that night, M. declared she had to walk home as she had missed the last tram and could not afford a taxi. I offered to accompany her, pushing my bicycle. She happily agreed to that offer.
We walked side by side, at one point our hands touching accidentally. I could not resist and put my finger in her palm indicating that it was not meant to be accidentally any more. My heart made a leap when I felt her hand grabbing mine. We walked for a bit hand in hand, close together. Not talking for a bit. My heart was pounding. Suddenly M. asked me to park my bicycle for a moment. I asked why. I almost fainted in shock when M. simply said: “I want to kiss you.”
We hugged and kissed. It got intense, our tongues met in her mouth. I was very happy and excited, I had not guessed that something like this could happen to me.
We kept on walking, taking a break every now and then to kiss again. I think both of our minds had already been made up of how this night should end.
To be honest, I was a bit anxious because I have erectile problems. I was not sure wether I would be able to satisfy her. I also knew that now I am in the deep shit territory when it comes to cheating on my wife. (I often cheat on her with men, but I consider this to be a different cateogory. So it does not count in my book.) Being my usual adventurous self, I just went for it anyway.
We got to her house and she invited me in.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into M.s small appartment and immediately started making out. We went to her bed, both undressed. I kissed her small, firm boobs and bum. I was happy to see that I had a hard-on, so I gave her a bit of oral pleasure to make her ready for the act that I hoped I would be able to perform. She must have thought the same and handed me a condom.
At this point my usual erectile problems set in again and so I could not pull that condom on. This is quite usual for me and I need viagra to have sex with my wife. Men fuck me and I give them blowjobs, so there is no problem with them. Of course, I did not have viagra with me that evening.
I smiled at M. and said that I guessed that I needed a bit more stimulation. I noticed that she had very cute feet and felt that I should not let this opportunity go pass in any case.
I grabbed M.s foot and stroked it. Kissed it, put the toes into my mouth. She giggled a bit. M. started to massage my balls and cock with her other foot. That aroused me! I got stiff again and managed to put on the condom.
She continued with the footjob with both feet. This time it even felt better, because the condom got rid of some friction. My dick got really hard and I went for it.
M.s pussy felt really tight and moist, it was wonderful. We did it missionary only. I did not have the confidence to change positon for fear of losing my erection. I felt very proud of how much I made her moan. Shortly before I came into the condom, she shrieked. I guess she had an orgasm. M. was glowing with happiness after that.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I had to tell her that I need to leave because my wife would find it odd if I come home too late. She gave me a very dirty look for that. M. had assumed that I had an open relationship. She got really mad at me when I confessed that this is not the case. I left pretty quickly to say the least. M. was really disappointed with me.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one!
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
Why do you regret this hookup? I feel sorry that I have cheated on my wife. I really do love her, but I could not resist this opportunity to have sex with a young woman. I also feel sorry that M. thinks I have taken advantage of her for having sex with her while I am in a closed relationship. She had expected that my relationship was open so it is ok to have sex with other people. Now she sees me as a cheat. I hope she will not gossip about it. If my wife finds out about this, that would be devastating.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with a young asian woman. I am very proud that I was able to get her to climax.
The fact that a young woman desired me even though I am already 42.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Feeling guilty about cheating and fearing my wife will find out.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I will be more careful in the future. I now know that I can even have sex with women! A young woman to top it off! I feel so proud of this achievement.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think there should be more open relationship. Unfortunately, mine isnt.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it. Good stories make me horny. I like it that the stories are real and not made up.
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