by Jim Morrison’s Mate
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Social Work
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Nope
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 60-70
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
I Broke Into My Own House To Have A One Night Stand
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago
How would you best classify this hookup? One night stand.
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Male, around 20-30 years old, alternatively dressed, dark hair. Didn’t feel much, hooked up at the end of the night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was substance affected, and started talking (slurring) to this guy next to me at a dingy bar in the city. One thing led to another and i took him home. When we got back to mine I realised I had left my keys and phone with my mates back at the bar. I borrowed a knife from my neighbour (lived in a flat) who was still up at 4am. Couldn’t get in with a knife. I then decided to blast the door open with my foot. Success! I don’t remember much, but I remember the look on my hook ups face….not great. Anyway, went in to my room. Don’t remember much about the deed, but did pass out half way through! Woke up to my mates coming back to the flat believing the flat had been broken into. As they went into the living room to see if anything had been broken, my hook up did a runner out of the house. My mates came into my room and I explained to them very drunkenly what had happened. Managed to get the door fixed by a mate for a slab of beer, a classy end to a classy story. I still laugh and cringe about it today.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? From what I remember, we were naked and had sex. I didn’t have an orgasm and doubt he did either.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was on the pill at the time, don’t remember if we used a condom. Didn’t contract anything luckily.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I hadn’t been laid in a while.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I smoked some pot and had some xtc at the beginning of the evening, and drank alcohol for the rest of it.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I didn’t really give much thought to the hook up, it was more the craziness of me smashing my door down because I wanted sex… I mean who does that.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My mates and housemates who I was out with at the time. Not too many people these days know about my sordid past.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes, both consensual.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I regret being that drunk and hooking up, but the story still makes me laugh.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The worst was the broken door, there wasn’t really a best cause I passed out half way through.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
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