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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Anacortes, USA
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

I’m 48

How long ago did this hookup happen? Recent

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a very sexy 30 yr old tall brown hair well endowed. I met him on a dating website and we hit it off immediately. I couldn’t wait for him to come over.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started about 2 yrs ago when he came over to my house. It was mutual we both wanted it bad

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well over the 2 yrs we have done it all. I was his first with anal sex.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We still hook up. I felt great after and he usually spends the night and we have sex again before he leaves in the morning.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knows

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He makes me feel good

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He is way younger

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me want to do it more

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? If both people can be honest then it’s a great thing.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? A good idea

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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