What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Intern
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Wiccan / Pagan
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? very open
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Incredible hook up !!!!
How long ago did this hookup happen? two days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Lets call him Jay. We actually met in High School, and we were actually boyfriend and girlfriend. But I broke up with him. Jay is over 6ft tall, and he’s now 23 years old. YES, I’m 3 years older than him.
4 years, Jay and I started talking through facebook, and said that it would be fun to hang out and go for a drink. So we started dating. But he kinda fell in love, and I wasn’t ready at all, to have a relationship. But, I really did like the guy, it was just going to fast. Since, I told him I was not ready. Jay completely stopped talking to me. For over the years, I know he had a 2-3 girlfriends and moved south.
UNTIL NOW, three days ago, I received a friend request from him, and also sent me a message saying he was back in town. And we should go for a coffee.
SO WE DID!!! we went for a coffee and had almost a 2 hour conversation. The thing is, I never felt so comfortable with the guy, and the BEARD he has been growing, makes him look like a MAN. URGH!!! I mean he’s just so handsome. I really love that style.
SO, I had to leave for a family dinner and we said that we could see each other again.
THE SAME NIGHT, he texted me that he wanted to see me again. And I also wanted to see him again. SO he drove to my town, 20 minutes away from where he lives. And we drove for a while. UNTIL we started an INTENSE CONVERSATION.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We parked, next to an old abandoned house, and started asking about my kinks. In the past, I’ve told him a little bit about it, but never had time to explain it all.
So I’m a SUBMISSIVE, I’m really interested in BDSM, I’m part of the BDSM community. So I kinda explain it all to him, and you could tell the sexual attraction was in the air.
WHEN I told him I really loved my hair being PULLED, he took my hair in his hand and said with a very dominating voice “LIKE THAT?”, I moan out loud “YyyEeeS!!”. We had a moment of silence, and then I asked him if he loved to choke during sex. THATS WHEN he put his hand around my neck and again said with his dominating voice “THAT I DO!!”. Our face were just an inch from touching, we were both silent. Until we starting kissing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We starting kissing really intensely, Biting lips. URGH!!! Amazing.
He pulled my chair down, and unbutton my bra, licked and kiss my boobs and nipples. And we continued making out. It was really intense. ESPECIALLY, it was really unexpected.
He put his hands in my pants, started rubbing my clit slowly. God that felt amazing. So on, he put a finger in my pussy, and then two. OK, THAT GUY FINGERED ME LIKE NO OTHER GUY DID. ROUGHLY INTENSELY AMAZING!! I WAS SHAKING!!!
I felt like it was my turn to return the favor, so put my hand on his pants, where I could feel his HARD ON. I unzipped his pants, and pulled out his “7” inch long cock. He the longest I’ve had.
Jay told me, that his ex-girlfriends never gave him blow jobs because they disliked it. I WAS LIKE OMG!! REALLY, LIKE FUCK MY MOUTH!!! I love having a cock in my mouth.
SO I went completely down on him, DEEPTHROATED him. He absolutely enjoyed it!! WELL he seemed and sounded like it. HE asked me if I swallowed, and I told him yes!!! IT WAS HIS GRANDMA’S CAR, so I guess he didnt want to make a mess. BACK TO THE STORY, I continued sucking him off, but the thing is I had a cold, and my nose was completely blocked, and I needed to breathe. By the time I was pulling his cock out of my mouth, HE was CUMMING, I mean A LOT of cum. So it went it my hair, my face, my mouth, and on him.
I FELT BAD.. I was laughing and said sorry. WE BOTH laughed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I put my bra back on and my coat, we talked on the drive back, and he asked me to not see our hook up as awkward and that I can text him anytime. The next day, we talked a little, but now he doesnt even answers my text. I feel kinda weird about it. I mean, I got really attracted to him. I just hope he does text me back.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? To friend SAM, she’s actually really supporting, and doesn’t judge me about having a hook up.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? it was amazing!! it was unexpected !!! I had a really good time.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? just the after hook up!! he still hasnt said a thing. and it makes me feel weird about it.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex is an amazing thing, just take good precautions, and have fun.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? PEOPLE SHOULDNT SEE CASUAL SEX AS SOMETHING BAD, sex is normal, we can have it with as many people as we want. YES, it is still a taboo subject for most people. But, people should open their eyes, and see the good about it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? ITS AMAZING!! LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!!!
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