What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Incredible Sex with a Senior in College
How long ago did this hookup happen? A year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I first met A as a freshmen in college when he was a senior. He was about 6’3 and had dark blond hair and very light blue eyes. He was a lacrosse player and was generally extremely attractive. We were both music majors and instantly became friends the moment we met. He also had a girlfriend at the time, but there was definitely romantic/sexual tension between us. Even one of my friends had noticed it but we never talked about it until after he and his girlfriend had broken up.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were hanging out in his dorm after a party. We were having this weirdly intense and personal conversation. We ended up on his bed cuddling in a pretty platonic way. We started talking about one of our mutual friends and laughing really hard because we were a little tipsy. Suddenly, he pulls me closer to him. I was pretty surprised, because even though there had been romantic/sexual tension for a while nothing had happened. We were lying very close together for a while and then we suddenly started making out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He was a wonderful and aggressive kisser. We made out for a long time and I kissed his ears, neck and chest and he was breathing very heavily. He started kissing my boobs and I started rubbing his dick over his pants. He fingered me through my skirt. We ended up completely naked on his bed and I gave him head and then we started having sex. He is way taller than I am so it was a bit difficult. I couldn’t really feel anything until he gave me head and it was AMAZING. I came multiple times and we ended up falling asleep and then having sex again in the early morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled and didn’t talk. I felt really happy the next day. I don’t think that I am going to be in a relationship with this person because we are compatible as friends but not as lovers and we also live in different states. I feel wonderful about them now.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Submission / Relinquishing power
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my friends. They were not surprised that it happened.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The kissing.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The fact that it probably won’t happen for a while because he lives far away.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me more confident about my body and more open to casual sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is great. I think that it should be more accepted in society, particularly for women.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s great!!!!!
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