What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Transport
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Rampant
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 34
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Incredibly hot brothel sex
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner in this encounter was a working girl I see every few months. She is Japanese and her working name is Jess (obviously not her real name). She is medium height, beautiful face and body, medium sized breasts and bum. Lovely smooth skin. I first met her in the brothel where she worked (and still works), about three years ago. It was quite by chance. I am discreet when I play because of my relationship status. I had read about this particular establishment and wanted to try it, because it is in a suburb about an hour from where I live. I had no idea who was on the books though. I rang the receptionist to make sure that there would be a girl free at the time I’d be there and she said, “You can see Jess. Very passionate girl!” Now I know that’s what they would say, wouldn’t they? But in this case it turned out to be true and it has led to some of the best sex I ever had in my life. The first time I saw her was when she walked into the room after I’d finished showering. I thought, damn, she’s a cutie! And when she offered me mouthwash I knew this wouldn’t be your standard brothel experience. I learnt on that first occasion that she loves kissing and being given oral, which I’m always glad to do.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well the time I’m writing about is my latest visit to her, about two weeks ago. I’d been driving my friend with benefits around to various shops he needed to visit and part of our trip took us through the outskirts of the city in some pretty rural areas. I had been hoping I could pull over somewhere and have a bit of a play with him, but unfortunately one of his straight friends bumped into us earlier in the day and tagged along, so nothing could happen. By the time I dropped them both of near the fwb’s house I was super horny. Then I realised my trip home would take me past Jess’s brothel and that it was the right day for her to be there. So I called and the receptionist said Jess was free. I drove over, went in, paid for the hour and went to the room to shower.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Although I see her every few months, Jess never remembers my name – not that I care, she remembers me. She’s always pleased to see me – her eyes light up when she sees it’s me in the room. On this occasion she said, “Oh, it’s my handsome man!” Now I’m not fool enough to think there’s anything terribly special about that – but she is a true professional and if it is an act it’s a very convincing one. Which after all is part of what I pay for. She handed me the mouthwash as usual and after shimmying out of her teddy kissed me passionately on the lips. I felt her little tongue dart in and out of my mouth. We lay down on the bed and I sucked on her nipples which are very sensitive. I cupped her pubic mound with my hand and felt the heat from between her lips. I touched her gently, not too roughly, on the outside of her labia, feeling her little clit under my finger. Then she surprised me by pushing forward so my finger slid into her cunny. She is so hot and tight. I started to rub her and she started breathing heavily. She had a small orgasm. I pulled my finger out and went down on her, nibbling her clit with my lips, thrusting my tongue into her. Her cunny is small and perfect! She came again and again. After a while she sighed and said, “Oh, you always wear me out. Let me suck you.”
She put a condom on me (after saying as she often does, how big my cock is – for the record, I don’t think it’s more than average, but she says it like she means it) and sucked me for a bit. Her mouth felt like heaven. Then she said, “fuck me please.” So I pushed her down on the bed and she put her legs in the air. I positioned myself so her calves were on my shoulders and gently pushed into her. She groaned and smiled. I started going slowly in and out and she was making little screaming moans as I did. “Yes, fuck me slowly,” she panted. We ended up on our sides, facing each other, one of her legs under my waist, the other over my thigh (my favourite position) as I kept thrusting slowly in and out. I alternated between kissing her lips and sucking on her gorgeous nipples. Her tight cunny gripped my cock like she didn’t want to let me go. And suddenly I was coming – and then she came with me. It was one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever felt. I felt like I was pouring my whole being into her while she bucked and moaned beside me.
After we recovered our senses and I pulled out of her, we looked at the clock and saw we still had twenty five minutes. So after cleaning up, we lay down together and hugged and kissed and talked. I love fore- and “after-” play as much as the actual penetration. Jess told me she was really horny because her girlfriend was overseas and she hadn’t been eaten out for a month. I have no idea how much of what she tells me is true but I don’t care. I love what we have together within the bounds of a professional – client relationship.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards I showered and went home, as always. I hope to see her again some time when time and finances permit. How do I feel about Jess? She seems a genuine person, warm and caring. I try to give her as much of a good time as she gives me. The fact that she’s a working girl doesn’t change how I approach sex with her – I don’t want only to take and not give (and I don’t believe the fact that I pay gives me that right).
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method, I get tested regularly
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one except you. I am discreet about my sex life.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being with Jess again. Sex with her makes me happy. It’s an intense experience.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m glad I live in an enlightened jurisdiction wher prostitution is legal, regulated and not unduly stigmatised. It gave me the chance to meet Jess who is amazing.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wish people would just chill out about it and stop trying to tell others how to live. Have casual sex if you want. Don’t if you don’t want. But don’t force your morality on anyone else. It’s pretty simple.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it!
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